Friday, 13 February 2015


"Marry him for who he is and not for what he has"

I just have a little word to share with my lady friends.. This might sound like a cliche, but i will still go ahead and say it. Whether you are already in a relationship, or you are about to start one, or you are still waiting to meet the guy, you must look out for these qualities:

He must know GOD deeply: Be wise to look into his christian life if truly he is a good christian who knows GOD deeply. If you have dated someone who does not know GOD, you will understand that no matter how hard you try, you can never enjoy peace. As a christian woman, you do not want to have anything to do with someone who does not know GOD! There are a lot of men who claim to be christians, but they are only church goers. So ladies, if what you truly want is to have a peaceful and loving marriage, then watch out for this quality.

He should be a good listener: The truth is women like to talk. We have a lot to talk about. Having a man that listens to you will go a long way to help you emotionally. Women are natural givers, and when we have given so much, it is not too much to ask for your partner to listen to you as you let out your feelings. It takes an emotionally balanced woman to function effectively as a wife and a mother. 

He should be a man of integrity: These days people compromise their values. They do not care about their integrity as long as it gets them the material gains and satisfaction. They conform to low morals and standards. Look out for that man who holds fast on his morals values and integrity no matter the situation. The bible says "Good name is better than riches". Men who can do anything for money, can do anything when the situation is hard. So, you are not even safe with a man with low morals and integrity. 

He should have a high level of understanding: The bible says that the man should treat his wife with understanding. For example, It takes a man with great understanding not to term his wife as a nag when she is trying to talk about her dissatisfaction, to see right through the emotion of his wife and not make a trouble out of it, to know that the woman is the weaker sex. Ladies look out for this quality.

Do not expect to change a man. When you notice that the man is not even above average of your expectations, do not venture in it thinking that you will change him. Run as far away from him as you can, because the moment you make the mistake of marrying a man with the mind of changing him, you will be doomed. So my beautiful ladies, a stitch in time saves nine. Aspire!

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