ARE YOU DATING THE RIGHT MAN? A PIECE OF ADVICE FROM MY VERY OWN MENTOR...


It is very important for you to be certain that you are dating the right man for you. 

A woman needs affection, attention, protection, love, care and understanding from her husband. 

Most times, the pressure from family, friends, relatives and the society affect our decisions in making the right choices. There's this conception about the age of a woman making her fully ripe for marriage.  But I have come to realise that age doesn't have anything to do with marriage.  It is all in the mind.  

If you are mature in your mind and you are well informed about taking a certain decision,  do you consider age as a factor?  Hardly.  

So my dear ladies, do not let anyone convince you to get married when you are not sure about the man you are dating no matter your age.

Does he have self control?  Is he spirit filled?  Know that one thing is to get born again and another thing is to get baptised in the HOLY SPIRIT(a talk for another day). 

You know yourself very well and what you can deal with. So, take your time and study him. No matter how we ladies pretend to turn a blind eye on something,  we always know the truth deep down inside. 

It is best to stay single than to have a terror as a husband. If you feel he is not the right man for you, do not give it a second thought,  just leave. Because if you do not,  you will get convinced. And the end will not be anything but pain and misery.

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