Does your man seek your opinion about his personal plans and goals? Does he build his plans to accommodate your needs and interests? Or does he tend to forget your existence at such times?
If your man does not show clear signs that he always has you in mind when decisions on every aspect of his life are being taken, then you should look closely and deeply into that relationship before venturing into marriage with him. If a man loves you and would love to build his life with you, he will get you involved in his personal life! Do not be deceived!