I noticed that people are comfortable with this fallacy, as in friendship, so in love, we are often happier from ignorance than from knowledge.
I have a strong feeling that this is a trick the devil uses to confuse and cage people emotionally, psychologically, mentally-an avenue where couples turn a blind eye to each others wrongs and indiscipline so that "peace" will learn.
Well, I am not saying that people should be unnecessarily nosy and negative about everything, but why not come clean and address whatever discomfort you feel about your spouse, rather than keeping quiet?
Haven't you noticed that when you are not okay emotionally, it affects the best of what you can do and who you are? That is why it is highly imperative that you look very carefully whom you choose as a spouse; is he or she welcoming and open to corrections and not turning it into a fight all the time?
Whether we like to admit it or not, when you choose to ignore talking to your spouse about most of these issues in a show of letting peace reign, you are creating a big barrier between you and your spouse and as such giving the devil the upper hand in your marriage. Let us be wise! Be open to your spouse, that's where the winning starts!
How can peace reign where there is conflict?