A RELATIONSHIP THAT LACKS GENUINE COMMITMENT.....

Someone once said, "If you do not feel excited about your relationship;  you do not always think about your partner, plan for the future or sacrifice for the relationship, your commitment level is low."

I totally agree! My mom told me that, to make a relationship work, your commitment must be unequivocal- meaning that you have clearly and undoubtedly made up your mind concerning the relationship- no hanky panky games! It takes a high level of maturity and spiritual discernment to understand the principles and sacrifices of marriage! 

Lack of commitment to your relationship will only sap life from it! If only one partner is committed to the relationship, it will not succeed! No matter how much you are ready to sacrifice for the success of the relationship, if your partner does not support and encourage your efforts, everything you do will eventually be wasted! 

If you are the one struggling, sweating and fighting to keep your relationship alive, you have become a slave to your partner. Obviously, he/she is not interested in real, genuine commitment or apparently he/she was forced into the relationship! 

Be careful who you end up with! Your future depends on your marriage! 

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