WHY YOU DO NOT NEED TO CONVINCE A MAN AGAINST HIS WILL


Some ladies think they can convince a man against his will and get him to change his lifestyle because of their influence on him. The truth is that a man  convinced against his will is of the same opinion still. 
No doubts, he may go along with you to get what he wants from you, but reverts to his old ways the moment he achieves his aim.

It is highly imperative that you do a thorough assessment of the man you are dating and planning to spend the rest of your life with, look out for his qualities, find out how he handles situations when he is under pressure, so that if you do not like what you see in him, you can do yourself good by letting him go. 

Another important factor to seriously consider, even though some women overlook it because of being "head over heels" is ensuring that the man they are dating are of the same faith and belief with them. This will go a long way to determine how long a marriage will last! 

The truth is, you can never change a man. What you see is usually what you get!

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