Life teaches us different lessons everyday. Always be ready to learn from others experience and do not pray to learn it the hard way. But if you do learn life the hard way, you are not disadvantaged, rather you have become an expert. So kudos to all my fellow learners!
Something I would love to share with you. To my fellow ladies, that your husband is a friend to some guy, does not automatically make you friends with the wife or wives of your husband's friends. Friendship is deeper than just a gisting mate or will I call it a gossip mate.
Choose your friends and do not let friends choose you. You can never expect to have the same level of understanding with an ammature, no matter the person's size. Do not allow your quest for friendship to cause you to lower or bend your standards and your beliefs to the levels of others.
If you are in a relationship where someone keeps telling you to prove yourself, making you feel less of yourself or even doubt yourself, leave that friendship or relationship without looking back!
Associate yourself only with the right people that can form your support system. Yes, no man is an island, but it is better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel unsure of yourself.
People are carrying too many baggage, and one needs to be careful who we let into our lives, lest you welcome someone with an over load that might( if absolute care is not taken) cause your life ship to sink!