When your heart is open and receptive, there is every tendency that you will make the right decision.
You do not have to be a pain to other people, just because you have pains. When you do not have to treat other people because "you are not in the right frame of mind", then you have come to a full maturity- that does not have to be "just all about you".
Every day is an opportunity to do right. So always learn to reach out to people, show some love; everyone needs those words of encouragement, acts of love and kindness from time to time.
Always keep this in mind- People will forget what you said or did, but will never forget how you made then feel.
GOD has created us for a purpose, have you discovered yours?
Have a great week friends!