Most times, what you confess is what is in your heart, "for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. And so you know, there is a great deal of power in your tongue.
To a very large extent, your words influence your life. Believe it or not, where you are now is as a result of your confession! When you voice what is inside of you, it is either your spirit is lifted or dampened, depending on whether your confession is positive or negative. That is why no matter who the person is, I immediately counter any negative words said to me, whether harshly or jokingly.
Remember, the power of life and death is in the tongue. So be extremely careful what you say or confess with your mouth! Always confess positively! Love yourself enough to believe that you deserve only the best; then speak the best into your life!