Most people look at their situation and they say, “This is who I am.” That is not who you are! That was who you were!
Let's say for instance, you don’t have enough money in your bank account right now, or you don’t have the relationship that you want, or you're battling with health issues. That is not who you are; but the residual outcome of your past thoughts and actions.
When you look at your current situation and define yourself by that, then you doom yourself to have nothing more than the same in the future.