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Someone said, that a man's home is the window into his mind. I think I agree with this saying, because when you visit the home of a very creative person, you will see that creativity in the arrangement of his home, no matter how small the apartment is.  I get bored easily whenever it seems I am not coming forth with something new and you can agree with me that it can be frustrating. And most times, the only way to get myself out of boredom is by rearranging my home and giving it a completely different look and I see myself coming up with ideas that have been on my mind. Get positively busy in your mind, and by doing so, you are creating your world,  it might not happen immediately, but as they say, dreams come true.  Have a splendid week!!! 😊😊

IMPOSSIBILITY IS NOTHING. IT ALL DEPENDS ON YOUR MINDSET.

Tough people survive tough times. When situation pushes you so hard, do not give in or give up. Just remember that GOD says HE will not put more on you that  you can bear. See your deliverance in that seemly difficult situation because, after the storm comes calmness. 

Someone once said, "fail early and make mistakes early, then realise your mistakes and correct them early; that will save you from making expensive mistakes in the future".  Some people failed earlier and became wiser earlier, by learning from their past failures. So, stop hating yourself because you failed; the good news is, you have become wiser. Also, try and learn from other people's failures.  As my late principal would say " failure is no crime, but low aim".

Never you lower your standard to get someone's approval. People should work to get to your standard in order to gain  your approval instead.  Because at the end of the day, your integrity is all that matters. Remember what Job's wife said to him "Are you still holding fast on your integrity? Curse GOD and die". Job maintained his integrity and still trusted GOD even in his predicament. And he got his reward from GOD.  So whether you are single, or married or you are a business person, whatever you are,  hold fast on your integrity. You are not being rigid, as some might insinuate. I have come to realise that people will say all sorts of things to get you to compromise your standard, but do not give in. GOD has given us the ability to choose wisely.  We all have made mistakes, one way or the other, but it is never too late to make amends and get things right. #work in progress.

CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS WISELY. THAT SOMEONE SMILED AT YOU AND LIKES TO BE FRIENDS WITH YOU DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD WELCOME THE FRIENDSHIP.

No matter how much you water a concrete, it can never grow a garden.  Let go of that wrong relationship. Do not believe in "the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know" lies. You might argue it and bring your strong reasons about how much of your time, money, energy, efforts you have put in the relationship,  but the truth is, you cannot wear a gold ring on a pig and expect it to know it's value.  There is someone out there for you- the right person who will treat you right. Good people still exist. Stop trying to make it work. It can never work as long as you are with the wrong person.  So let go and let GOD! Preserve the watering for the best to come. 

I want to say thank you to all my Google plus followers/friends, Facebook friends and all the communities I joined, for finding out time to read and comment on the posts I share through my blog every day. I really appreciate. Thank you all so much and GOD helping me,  there will be lots of interesting stuff to feed your souls and emotions. More blessings. 

Mom, words are not enough to say how deeply grateful I am to GOD for giving you to us (my siblings and I). You have showed so much care, love, affection, commitment, in your duty as a mother and a wife. You have tirelessly carried your family's burden without complaint. You are an epitome of GODS love and beauty. You are indeed a virtuous woman.   Thank you my sweet mother for all your prayers, advice, love, care.  You never say never! Impossibility is not in your vocabulary at all and I am grateful to GOD that I got that from you. My GOD will keep you and dad alive to reap the best of your children. Long shall you live mom! I celebrate you! 

Love does not hurt. But when you get yourself involved with someone who does not know how to love, then you will get hurt. 

Motherhood is sacrifice.  When I think about my mother and all these countless sacrifices she has made for my father, siblings and I and so many people who call her mother, I would say she is a great example of a mother. It takes a mother to understand what a child does not say. A mother must be willing to give up self. A mother should make the HOLY SPIRIT her help to be able to succeed in this calling. Let me not take much of your time, let's hear what some great mothers have to say about motherhood: PASTOR ESTHER OTENAIKE: "A Mother should be a home builder display virtuous and Godly character and an epitome of God's grace.  A Mother should be loving, hospitable, gentle, and a strict disciplinarian and homemaker!! She must be found to be dependable! A Mother must be optimistic about life, encouraging her children and husband to succeed and doing them good all the days of her life.  A mother must be industrious, energetic and multi tasking coordinat

A woman in labour gives birth after enduring a few hours of pain, so does the morning come forth after the darkest hour. Your miracle could just be a few patience away; wait for it.

Happy birthday to you my beloved daddy.  Long shall you live. Many more beautiful years filled with joy and happiness. I love you...

There are great benefits in waiting. If you learn to wait and observe, you will make better choices-either in choosing a life partner or a business to venture into or whatever you desire to do.  The truth is, the thing you think you can't live without today, you may be glad to get rid of it tomorrow. #My Mentor

Anyone who desires lifting must be humble!  And anyone who wants to be helped by GOD must not resort to alternatives.  Life is more than material things. 

Every husband and wife need to sit down and meditate on this thought:  My partner married me because he or she thought the pleasing things I was doing during our courtship would continue for the rest of our lives. Am I holding up my end of this bargain? Search your soul deeply....your husband or wife might be crying in pain.  Learn this truth: Money or a career should serve a marriage; A marriage should never serve money or career.  #May GOD help us all to get it right in our marriages, because marriage, I must say, is a beautiful thing. 

It is very easy for one to take one for granted when one knows one's weakness. But have you taken time to think why that person chose you, of all the trillions of people in the world to confined in you? You might feel it does not matter to go about hurting people, but there is always a day of reckoning.  Learn to treat your loved ones right so you don't live in regrets, wishing you had another chance. #My Mentor

The voice you keep listening to is the voice you will eventually believe. Be careful who you listen to and seek counsel from. It could chart your life. People have different opinions about life and how they approach situations, but always go to people with positive energy who could tell you "yes you can", who believe in you. You might have doubts, but keep listening to the truth - positive vibes from people who have understood that you could change the course of your life by having the right attitude and listening to the right confessions.  Remember, ten spies infected millions of the Israelites with their doubts and unbelief. The Israelites forgot about the grapes of blessing when they listened to the doubts, fear and unbelief of ten spies, instead of sticking to the promise GOD made to them - that the land HE shall help them posses is filled with milk and honey and that HE will go before them and defeat the giants.  It could take just one person to pull down your l

Until you have reached that point when you have given up self, motherhood might mean to you, just giving birth to children. It takes a lot of sacrifice and discipline to raise Godly children, which can only be achieved through the help of the HOLY SPIRIT.

Learn how to love yourself, be content and how to make yourself happy. Because you cannot give what you do not have. 

In those days, husbands used to be responsible to their wife's needs. A simple example is, the man used to notice when his wife's hair was due for a change and he would give her money to make a new hair.  I hear a lot of women say that their husbands do not show interest to their needs and I wonder why. What really is the issue? What could be the cause of the man not responding positively to his wife's needs? Could it be the woman's fault? But the same man would spend on the woman while they were dating and suddenly stops after they are married.  Please I need an answer, because I am single and looking forward to getting married someday and wouldn't want to experience such negligence from my spouse. Thank you Neme for this opportunity. I hope I get answers. 

It is a blessing to have beautiful souls around you, because there are alot of mean souls out there. #My Mentor

It is a beautiful thing to stay calm and quiet, when someone expects you to be enraged. Many times, people say hurtful things to you and of course, the human nature wouldn't tolerate the insults and humiliation. As much as you can, try not to engage in arguments with people with low thinking. You will end up getting stressed out trying to explain yourself.  The bottom line is, it is not every argument you must engage in,  no matter how pained you feel.  #My Mentor

Life is so much brighter and more fulfilling when we focus on the things that truly matter. Never compete with anyone.

True friendship is beautiful. When you are favoured by GOD to have someone you can call a true friend, cherish it, no matter what you feel the person may have benefited from you. The world is an amazing place where surprises happen every day. The person you helped today, might be your saviour tomorrow. Count your blessings, not the good you have done!