The importance of the emotional health of the man you marry can never be over emphasised! Because GOD has made the man to be the head of his family, he must be emotionally healthy, else he will and always make decisions that will continuously put your relationship and marriage in jeopardy! His mental health could also be influenced by his emotional health. You do not want to be with a man who is psychotic or who has a history of violence, trust me! You do not want to marry a man who beats you beyond recognition, at any little arguement! Yes, it is true that a lot of us have experienced some emotionally disturbing events in the past, but you see, a lot of people have allowed their past to define them, which should not, if you ask me! To let go of the past is not easy at all, but with GOD, it is as easy as ABC, only if you let HIM! Past mistakes, terrible and violent experiences should never define our lives or how we treat people! Some men are violent and abusive be