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You've got to know where your help comes from; otherwise, you will waste your time chasing people who have no power than you do! Stay connected to your source! GOD! 

You were not meant for failure; get up and win that race! Winning is to rise each time you fall.  Are you too far behind to hope to win? You could still win you know; as long as the race is still on. It does not matter whom the audience is cheering, you could get the greatest cheer when you cross the line; when you finish the race.  The world will cheer you if you do not give up; even if you are not the number one! 

Franklin Roosevelt said, "Men are not prisoners of fate, but prisoners of their own minds."  Every level of promotion or income growth in life and ministry demands a different you.  You have a gold mine in you, but it cannot grow without your mind! Your mine must grow with your mind!  Have you bothered to find out if you are the problem?

If you are seriously dating a man now with the intention of changing him once you both get married, I would suggest you drop that idea today, because he is not going to change! It won't happen.  If you are not pleased with what you see in the man you are dating now and are not willing to live with him the way he is in the event of both of you getting married, then he really cannot be the right one for you.  Mary's case is an example of what happens when  you marry a man with the foolish hope that you will change him when you both get married. She married Collins even though he had always beaten her up while they were dating and he was also a womaniser. He would beg for forgiveness and promise to be a better person if Mary would give him another chance, yet he even got worse.  In spite of what she was going through in the relationship, she went ahead and married Collins with the idea that she would change him, persuade him to follow her to church, stop him from bea

Hello friends, hope you all had a great day. I have a few tips to share with you. Wouldn't elaborate though,  just an insight from a seminar I attended. Hope you find them helpful if you are looking towards setting up a team for your set goals.  Look for people who are willing and able to share their expertise with others.  Look for people who feel comfortable with and enjoy working with others in a team.  Look for people who communicate ideas, information and opinions clearly and openly.  Look for people who welcome different points of views and feedbacks for people.  Look for people who are dependable and who work to deadlines.  Look for people who jointly set team goals and objectives, values and methods. 

We are designed to connect to others.  We can achieve the impossible when we are rightly connected!

Something that has helped me in life, in spite of situations and circumstances that seemed impossible, is the fact that "I choose always to win even in the worst situation!" In fact, I see the winning before it comes. I settle it In my spirit before I even start seeing the results manifest! That is that stubborn part of me that never says never! So, this Is not a fallacy or something that someone told me that I am not even sure if it works. This is what works for me on a daily basis.  As long as you are alive, you are in a race! You either win or lose and I know we all go with the winning! Nobody wants to be a failure or a loser.  And the truth is, if you do not see the end results of your plans before executing them, you will be vulnerable to the challenges that you might face climbing up! But if you see your success as you plan your goals, with the help of GOD, you will be insurmountable! Nothing will move you! You will keep at it, no matter what!  So, fini

The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for! Think deep about it!

Do you agree that what you lack at the moment and the failures you have gone through have the capacity to bring out the best in you?  Rather than become sad by what you lack or the negative experiences you have had, you can make use of them as ladders to greatness!  You know Larry Ellison? He dropped out of college twice and bounced from job to job without a clear direction. His adopted father practically told him that he would never amount to anything in life! But Larry Ellison started the company "Oracle" from the scratch and went on to become one of the richest "drop out billionaires" in the world!  Here's what he said: "The most important aspect of my personality as far as determining how my success goes has been my questioning conventional wisdom, doubting experts a day questioning authority. While that can be easily painful in your relationships with your parents and teachers, it's enormously useful in life. I have had all the disadva

Hello friends, hope you are having a great day. Someone once said these, and I thought I should share with you.  Read below: If you want to be defeated, look back!  If you want to be distracted, look around!  If you want to be dismayed, look ahead! If you want to be disappointed, look across!  If you want to be disgraced, look down!  But if you want to be delivered, look up! That is where your winning comes from-up! 

If you are honest to yourself, you will notice the presence of a compelling peaceful feeling and assurance about the man  you intend to spend the rest of your life with, when you think of both of you living as husband and wife. If this peace is not present in your relationship, you may need to put all plans to take the relationship to the next level on hold till you get this assurance!  And the best way by far to get this assurance and to be sure you are taking the right step is to ask for divine guidance. If you have sought the face of GOD and still feel that doubt and uneasiness, that is GOD telling you "DO NOT GO THERE". Am very sure a lot of us know exactly what I am talking about. 

As you go out daily, do not talk too much about yourself. No one likes to listen to people who talk too much about themselves. Listen to others as you would love to be listened to. People who talk too much about themselves are boring! Avoid it! Thousands of people are hurting daily, talk about their problems! Praise in public! Discipline in private! Choose to intercede for someone in your daily prayers.

Henry Ford said, "Whether you think you can or you think you cannot, you are right."  He was the man that gave his generation the motorcar cylinder engine against all odds! Even though his friends or circumstances around were all negative, he kept his inner being- his thoughts- positive, and became a celebrity!  The enemy would do everything possible to attack your thoughts in order to disorganise your dreams! Do you know that your thoughts eventually become words? And your words actions? And your actions habits? And your habits character? And your character your destiny?  A man is essentially what he thinks, his character and by implication his destiny, all being the sum total of his thoughts!  Thought is very power; it's a force. Thought gives birth to creation. Thought is cause!  Whatever result you see manifest in your life is as a result of your thoughts. Thinking is the talking of the soul with itself! Refuse thoughts of fear, complex, can't

Keep all your dreams so close to your heart, and never give up when your life is falling apart. Let your dreams give you strength to carry on, and help you find the future you feel has gone.  Build on those dreams that you hold so dearly, and you will be able to see your life more clearly. These are your tomorrow's you can make today, and through the darkness, you will find your way. Nothing is impossible, as long as you believe; those felt unreachable are possible to achieve. Have some faith in yourself that you deserve good, trust in GOD'S love, and reach for the stars!

In your relationship with people, wisdom is important. Be friendly with all, but do not take all into consideration. "Lady Christiana"

Martha Stewart is an American business magnate, media personality, author and magazine publisher.  During her glorious days, she published a variety of cookbooks and authored many newspaper columns, magazine articles a day other pieces on homemaking. In 1990, she developed a magazine, "MARTHA STEWART LIVING," where she was editor-in-chief. Circulation eventually spiked to more than two million copies per issue.  NOTE: get ready to be envied when your success is announced, but if your trust is in GOD, no evil plan against you shall succeed.   So, it happened that all of this success came to a crashing halt in early 2004 when she was convicted of lying to investigators about a stock sale using insider trading (and thereby avoiding a loss of more than $45,000). Martha Stewart served five months in a West Virginia federal prison camp. Most experts speculated that her career was over, but they were wrong!  Straight out of incarceration, Martha began her comeback!

"If you are not going to maintain a garden, do not plant one". A lot of people have ventured into tasks without seeing them to a finishing. Either they tried to copy someone or they just wanted to follow the trend and not feel left out or they just did not know what they were venturing into. It is wise that we look before we leap. Ask questions, dig deep, find out facts about what you are about to venture into- no matter what it is. It is always wise to get clarity in anything at all we want to do in life.  So if you are not ready to finish a race, do not start one.  If you are not ready to finish a house, do not lay a foundation. If you are not ready to maintain a friendship, do not make one. If you are not ready to be patient, love, respect and understand your spouse whom you'd declared all your love and loyalty to, do not get into it and mess him or her up.  Bottom line is, whatever you want to get into, make sure you have all the facts so that you can dec

Every worthwhile accomplishment has a price tag attached to it. The question is always whether you are willing to pay the price to attain it-in hard work, sacrifice, patience and faith! 

Strength has come to stay. 55 is real. GOD bless NIGERIA! We can only get better. As GOD is blessing Nigeria, may our families also be blessed!