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HERE'S A QUESTION SENT TO ME BY A NEMERULEZ BLOG LOVER

What will you do if your husband asks you to quit your good earning job to look after your kids while he makes the money?  Friends lets talk. Please send your comments.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

Choose habits that will lead you to success and repeat them everyday. Focus and refuse to be distracted. Consistency pays. 

HAVE YOU DISCOVERED YOUR PURPOSE?

Everyone has a purpose. It is the reason we exist. It is our life's mission. You need to know the reason you exist. Do you? You must be certain that you were created for a great purpose. When you discover that purpose, and you are doing what you were created to do, becoming what you were created to be, you will find fulfillment. Which will also most definitely contribute to your happiness.  The hardest thing to do is to pressure someone to do something or be something when the person does not even know the reason he or she exists in the first place.  If you meet someone who is not fulfilling his purpose, you will notice from the persons attitude. The person could be rude, always agitated, most times feels unrest and cannot even understand why. But when you are around someone who is fulfilling his purpose, you notice his calm, well composed confident look, deep satisfaction and security. The truth is, the person might not have all the money in the world, but his peace of m

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WORD FOR TODAY. BE INSPIRED!

Be confident. Be inspired. Be motivated. Be assured. Do not doubt yourself. Give yourself time from time to time, you need it for your growth and development.  Stay away from social media for a while, if that will help your sanity, because most times, things are not always as they seem.  Love your spouse. Be thankful for your life and your spouse and your children. Always reach out to your parents and siblings.  You are enabled. Do not at anytime consider giving up. You might not be there yet, but hope is powerful. Keep hoping that someday your dreams will come through.  Strive to learn. Associate yourself with positive, humble, GOD-loving people. Let your decisions be firm. Do not let anyone mesmerise you. Gird your heart with all diligence. Never say never! 

STRENGTH IS POWER

Strengths surface when we discover things we can do almost effortlessly, but which seem to be challenging to some other persons. The fact that strengths are different in everybody is what makes life interesting and complementary at the same time.  One person may be strong and gifted in public  speaking, but absolutely despises detail planning and administration. At the same time, someone close to him may love the details of strategic planning and questions, but cannot even fathom how anyone can stand up and speak or teach without preparation.  When you put these individual strengths together, you will have  great results in whatever you set out to achieve. Strength is power. Let us learn to make room for each other's strengths. Everybody must not be business inclined, or a writer, or an orator etc, but when these strengths come together, goals are achieved! 

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

How many women have settled for unhappy relationships merely because they have come to a sad conclusion that to have "some" man is better than no man at all? Too many. 

PAY CLOSE ATTENTION TO YOUR SEED!

If you are thinking of quiting, remind yourself that it really hasn't been long since you started. Think about why you started in the first place. Think about what you are working for. Stay focused on your future and keep striving for greatness.  Remember that the big mango tree you admire and eat from now, came from a very tiny, helpless, uninteresting seed.  It is very important for you to know that if you really need a success that will last and stand the test of time, you must be patient to nurture your seed- water it everyday, weed, apply manure, pray on your seed, because as an Agricultural student,  i know that is very possible for your seeds to die even after applying all the basic principles- natural agents that should grow your plant.  Pay close attention to that little business you have started (your seed). Do not be in a hurry for your business to begin to yield profits yet. Patience is a virtue and you must be patient to discover what works for your busin

THE BAGGAGE...BE CAREFUL WHO YOU LET IN!

Life teaches us different lessons everyday. Always be ready to learn from others experience and do not pray to learn it the hard way. But if you do learn life the hard way, you are not disadvantaged, rather you have become an expert. So kudos to all my fellow learners!  Something I would love to share with you. To my fellow ladies,   that your husband is a friend to some guy, does not automatically make you friends with the wife or wives of your husband's friends. Friendship is deeper than just a gisting mate or will I call it a gossip mate.  Choose your friends and do not let friends choose you. You can never expect to have the same level of understanding with an ammature, no matter the person's size. Do not allow your quest for friendship to cause you to lower or bend your standards and your beliefs to the levels of others.  If you are in a relationship where someone keeps telling you to prove yourself, making you feel less of yourself or even doubt yourself, le

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FOOD FOR THOUGHT

Sometimes, tough times could create your future, because necessity is the mother of invention. It is when things are really hard that people work harder. Someone once said, only fools seek for a problem-free life. Do you agree? Well, whatever is the case, do not surrender your life to problems. Be in control and avoid depression! 

CELEBRATING THESE STRONG WOMEN!

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I admire these  women so much, Taraji P.Henson and Genevive Nnaji. Aside their beauty, which is very secondary to me, their stories are my strong points! These women had a very rough, tough life in the beginning, yet they did not give up or right themselves off. Instead, they persevered. They knew that they deserved better than what life brought to them. So looking back from where they are coming from, these women have paid their dues to really be enjoying the very good things they are getting from life! Consistency! They never gave up! They are just so on point and still down to earth that you can relate so easily with them like ordinary people. Yes it is the ordinary people that make the extraordinary. Just want to encourage someone out there by saying this, DO NOT GIVE UP ON LIFE. DO NOT GIVE UP ON YOURSELF. LIFE WILL PAY YOU BACK FOR YOUR PATIENCE AND CONSISTENCE!  I admire you and I celebrate you, Taraji. P.Henson and Genevive Nnaji. More power to your elbows! 

REFLECTION

Too often,our actions are dictated, not by purpose, but by a need to please. We care so much about people's opinions- people who are still struggling with discovering themselves. In spite of fear, people still beat the odds, only because they have discovered their purpose. Have you? Or are you still waiting for someone to dictate your destiny? 

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IMPOSSIBLE OR I'M POSSIBLE.

Because something seems difficult for you, do not think that it is impossible for someone else. Difficult situations arise because someone somewhere is capable of solving it. Could it be you?  Impossible to me simply means I'm possible! So dare it! No limits to what you are capable of achieving, only if you can dare yourself to face that challenge! You cannot keep running away from difficult challenges, no you can't. Because life will continue to throw stones at you if you continue to run away or concede to impossibilities.  So many times I get so exhausted, I just feel like I should take a break from writing, but you know what, I am an excuse killer. What I do in such situation is that I try to sort myself out and give myself some time to relax by engaging in something else, something fun, then viola, I am back on my feet!  If you need results, you must focus on the process first. That is what makes you who you become eventually, after going through hard times! 

WHAT YOU NEED TO HEAR RIGHT NOW!

The great obstacle to every man's progress is fear.  Sometimes, it is the failure or crisis of the past that haunts us; thereby affecting the present.  This has been said many times, that many great men and women who ever accomplished great things in all spheres of life were "failures" at one time or the other, but they overcame their failures by being determined (never to quit) and courageous.  Do not wish to become, or should I say, never follow anyone who brags that they have never failed or made a mistake! Either they are lying to you or they have never tried anything!  No matter the state of your failure, never surrender to it. Never give up! Never right yourself off or conclude death on your case! Be determined that though you failed, you will surely bounce back, better, stronger and wiser! Failure is no crime, but low aim! So determine to aim higher! Keep hope alive. Forge ahead and conquer fear.  When you conquer fear, you have conquered fail

WHY YOU NEED A MENTOR

Mentors are people who have done what you are trying to do. They have achieved what you are trying to achieve in your relationship, career, business and are very successful. If you want to succeed in whatever aspect, you need a mentor.  From experience, there  are many challenges I could have easily overcome earlier in life had I the wisdom of experienced person(s) guiding me. I did not have to learn by experience what I could have learnt by wisdom.  With mentors watching over you, for instance your relationship, they provide timely solutions to challenges which could occur as a result of one's immaturity, in-experience in handling a relationship, inability to make good decisions. They will guide you through making the right choices in any aspect of your life.  Mentors do not jump on you from nowhere, you have to seek them out yourself if you desire their wealth of experience, my mom will always say.  Many people could have been saved from pains and regrets of wro

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TIME TO FOCUS ON THE HABIT.

Hello friends, hope you all are having a great year already. Is it too early to ask? (Smiles). Oh well, you'd better not underestimate yourself, because that change you are expecting can happen in a split second. How is your resolution coming along? I know a lot of people wrote down their resolutions and are already up on it. Keep it up friend.  Should I tell you what will help you achieve your set goals? Focusing on the habit, and not on the result. Do you know that it is very possible for your set goals to overwhelm you such that you get stuck even before setting off, if you try to execute them all at once? That will be very unhealthy and might lead to serious depression. Some people have lost it because they chose to focus on results instead of focusing on the habits.  It doesn't make sense rushing off and at the end you hit the rock bottom. Frequency matters more than quantity. For instance, your resolution is to lose weight, make it a habit to go to the gym e

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LEARN FROM IT!

Are you always looking at the difficulties, problems and challenges you face? You cannot possibly go through life like that, building on the negative. We all know that as long as there is life, challenges will definitely come. But as a winner that you are, you can turn every challenge into an opportunity for growth and maturity.  For couples who have been through a very rough path, you and your partner can learn from experiences and use them to forge a stronger bond of love and friendship.  Like my mom will always say, "cakes go through fire before they become "a delight". It takes only wisdom for couples who truly love themselves and know where they are coming from, to deal with challenges together and learn from it!  Most times, challenges are "a wake up call". So instead of looking for an escape from the situation, try and learn from it!

REFLECTION

Where you are is almost as important as what you are. Where you are determines what grows inside of you. Your weaknesses or your strengths require a climate to grow.  When you are with the right person(s), the best in you comes out. There is best in every human being. But it will only take the right person, the right circumstance to bring it out.  Be careful to choose right, as to who you be with or where you go to or who you work for. It is very important if you want to succeed! Happy New Year once again! 

"MY GRATEFUL PRAYER TO THE WORLD" TYRESE GIBSON WISHES THE WORLD A HAPPY NEW YOU YEAR! BE INSPIRED!

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Happy New You Year!!!!!!!!! (( Guys Thank you for your concerns I was no where NEAR the isolated hotel fire that happened in Dubai last night! I'm poppin on a mega yacht in the ocean turnt).... No one was reported to be hurt Prayers that everyone stays safe Happy New # YOU Year!!!! Here's my grateful prayer to the WORLD!!..... Everyone knows I come from very humble beginnings walked the rough ghetto streets of Watts, Homeless and raised m a single parent home... Mother addicted to alcohol for 27 years, father left us on our own.... For on drugs and alcohol... I've been exposed to drug, murder, homies in and out of jail, prostitution, racism, we never ever had money, never had food and it was 4 of us..... But the GOOD LORD FAVOR covered us.... The struggles developed character and a hunger for life and success that's unmatched... To the Lord Jesus Christ be all the glory..... Father God I thank you for everything that you are and everything that you c

HAPPY NEW YEAR FRIENDS! HAVE AN AMAZING 2016!

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Hello Nemerulez Blog Lovers, so sorry I have been a bit under the weather, that is why you have not read from me. But I am better now. Thank you so much for making 2015 a great year for me. I look forward to having another great time with you all on this platform. May GOD'S grace be sufficient for us all as we soar higher in the year 2016. Let's rock it!!!