Wednesday, 18 July 2018


A lot of people mistake self-confidence with self-esteem.    I used to make that mistake as well until I started studying about believing in oneself and abilities. 

From my own understanding, self-confidence is slightly different from self-esteem. Self-esteem has to do with your feelings about yourself, your behaviour and your worth as a person. While, self-confidence is your believe in your abilities and in the way you present yourself to the world. Peoples actions or reactions are more likely to erode your self-confidence than it would your self-esteem. Talking from experience. 

So, these two emotions have quite a bit in common. They are both measures of your believe about yourself; yet can be easily thrown off balance, which may lead to your being overconfident or portraying behaviours that could distance you from your actual existence.

That being said, you need to find a balance between too little self-confidence and too much. You can't accomplish much without self-confidence, because truth be told, not everyone will like what you're bringing to the table. You must be confident enough to push through. Consequently, too much self-confidence can make you too comfortable and ensures that you don't push hard enough to reach your goals. 

Truth is, you can do anything you put your mind to. There is no limit to the power of the human mind. Your possibilities are endless.

Friday, 15 June 2018


Some people will never tell you that they had a bad day. I am one of them! As a matter of fact, these people believe that there is no such thing as a "bad day." To these people, every day is a gift! They are thankful for the challenges because they teach them. They are thankful for their jobs even when it is not pleasant. I am marveled at their ability to see each day as a "good day" irrespective of the challenges they had to face.

Truth is, every day we are alive is a gift and there is so much to be grateful for. Stop focusing on the things that make you feel unhappy. A few stuff that did not go well for you does not and should not ruin your whole day unless you let it! Your choice.

In the end, having a positive outlook is entirely up to you! You can never control what other people say or do to you, but you can control how you respond to it.

By choosing to stay positive, you will be happier and healthier than ever before and of course you will enjoy your PEACE! Happy Holiday Friends. 

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Thursday, 17 May 2018


It is not the great revelation you have not yet had that will cause you the most trouble. But failing to walk in the ones you already have. So, be faithful in the things you have no matter how little you think they are or how substandard they look. You can never know how the exact same thing you looked down on could turn around to become a sought after! 

Life may bring you to an unfamiliar path. But if you continue to walk on the right path, holding firmly on what you believe, your positive affirmations, you will make it through JUST FINE! But if you decide to wander off into the darkness by yourself, you will probably stumble. 

Keep walking on the right path! Hope you see that glimpse of light. Help is on the way! 

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Monday, 16 April 2018


Your life right now is a reflection of your past thoughts. That includes all the great things, and all the things you consider not so great. 

Since you attract to you what you think about most, it is easy to see what your dominant thoughts have been on every subject of your life, because that is what you have experienced. Until now! 

Good thing is, you can start right now to change the things you don't like about your life. Just start thinking right! 

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Thursday, 29 March 2018


Everything that happens to us happens for a purpose. And sometimes, one thing leads to another. 

Instead of locking yourself up in the cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassments and failures, treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self-improvement and success. 

Truth is, there's nothing like "coincidence or happenstance." IT IS ALL IN THE PLAN! 

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Monday, 26 March 2018



Sometimes, when the situation seemed unbearable, all I needed was to remember how I made it through the past challenges, how I survived them, what I did to pull through and all.

Usually, it's hard to believe when you seem to have nothing to cheer you up or encourage you. It's hard to believe when the situation is unbearable and all that surrounds you is darkness. But as they say, only the wise don't forget where they are coming from. 

Take your time, sit back and remember where GOD brought you out from and how HE helped you through those difficult challenges of the past, then draw strength from them. You will see that the situation that seem too big will begin to seem small. 

Be encouraged my friend, nothing is too hard for GOD. Photo Credit: Pixabay

Saturday, 24 March 2018


Thoughts are powerful indeed, and as conscious beings, we have the privilege to control them - by choice.

Unfortunately, most people lack this knowledge and they allow their thoughts to rule their lives without even being aware of it.

Will you live a life controlled by random thoughts or will you choose your thoughts carefully to develop a success mindset?

When you get a hold of your thoughts you have the power to create wonderful things in your life, all by just taking command, training and instructing your mind to think properly. 

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Friday, 23 March 2018



When you do not treat yourself the way you want others to treat you, you can never change the way things are. So, question is, how do you treat yourself? 

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If we want a joyous life, we must think joyous thoughts. If we want a prosperous life, we must think prosperous thoughts. If we want a loving life, we must think loving thoughts. Whatever we send out mentally or verbally will come back to us in like form. That's just the way it is!

Remember, thoughts are like seeds- they grow eventually! What thoughts are you feeding  your mind with. 

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Thursday, 22 March 2018


To make your relationship work,  you must learn to focus on what you appreciate about the other person, and not your complaints about him or her. As easy as this may seem, though, it is easier to appreciate ones good when the person is always willing to get better. It's actually a two way thing because it takes two people to have a relationship. 

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Tuesday, 20 March 2018


Hard times  can make the nights seem endless, but have you noticed that somehow, you feel better in the morning? Even though the mornings sometimes seem heavy, yet, there's so much hope for the new day. Alot of people have experienced miracles in the course of a new day, you too will! Do you believe that? 

Here's what I've learnt- to give my burdens less attention and my blessings much more by being grateful. No matter how hard your situation is, there are so many people in worse.

We are what we think and we live what we believe! It's all in your mind, which life you desire to have.

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Monday, 19 March 2018


I have only watched Big Brother Naija once, say for like 15 to 20 minutes. Reason being that, since I hate judging, I didn't want to conclude based on other peoples opinion. I wanted to have my own opinion about the housemates. But then, someone stood out from all the housemates, Ifuennada. Her intellect, go-getter spirit,and the fact that she's funny wanted to glue me on to the screen, but hey, I had so much to do and was already feeling like I had wasted my 20minutes. 

Today, I learnt that she was evicted from the house some days ago and that Big Brother has given the audience the opportunity to vote back their evicted housemates into the house. So, I'm using my platform to vote Ifuennada back into the Big Brother Naija House. I believe she still has so much to offer. 

Well done Girl. You have my Vote! Guys, please vote for her!

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As bad as things may look, there certainly must be something to be grateful to GOD for. If you focus on the situation at hand, you are only giving more room to be anxious which will automatically affect the rest of your day(s). So if you ask me, I would say, you should not focus on the things you do not want or the mistakes that happened. Focus on the positive things in your life! And trust me, you should be happy for the mistakes, because "you just got wiser!'

Wednesday, 7 February 2018


The antidote to frustration is FAITH! Not in your cleverness or your hard toil, but in GODS' guidance. Always remind yourself that GOD is with you, and that HE will never fail you. Say these words, " GOD is with me, helping me."

Thursday, 11 January 2018


Dear Nemerulez Blog Lovers,

I welcome you all to an awesome year! One thing should be on your mind always, "You are meant to succeed"! So, do not let any situation you are presently in tell you otherwise! Say to yourself right now, "I am meant to succeed"! Nothing less! Believe that!

Even though right now you do not have a clue about how to get on with achieving a successful 2018, don't look far! Ask GOD to help you. Remember, commit your ways to HIM and HE will make your path straight! 

Cheers to a successful 2018! Let's soar! 

Thursday, 21 December 2017


How much time do you spend with yourself? How much of you do you know? Have you taken out time to really discover who you REALLY are, and why you are living? The truth is, if you take time to get to know yourself - REALLY know yourself -you will discover things that were previously hidden or denied because they didn’t match others’ expectations of you or maybe you lacked the courage to be who GOD has called you be because you feel that you are too small to face the "big" task.

Here is the best and quickest way to get to know yourself: spend time alone as often as possible. Shut off the television and radio, block outside distractions, and simply allow yourself to BE. Ensure that you have your journal with you anytime you're having your alone time, because you will be shocked at the things you will discover about yourself. 

Don't worry if you didn't discover anything yet. It is a gradual process. That's why you need to always spend time with yourself. 

The more you do this, the more connected you become with your inner self. You begin to tap into your inner dialogue, and a deeper understanding of yourself will surface. The changes you experience from this process might seem small at first, but they quickly gain momentum.