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I don't mean to shake any table this morning, but to let you ladies in on the truth and reality about relationship and marriage. Please don't break up with him for not getting enough attention from him because he's always with his phone. If he genuinely loves you, because we all know when a man loves us genuinely, then stick with him and figure out a way to make him curtail on the habit. Men almost can't do without their phones. They literally run businesses with it. As annoying as it is, we can't help but cope with the one who truly loves us. Be wise.

With so much going on in relationships and how couples are breaking up, like the news of Nicholas Cage who filed for annulment 4 days after getting married, how do you know if the person you're dating or courting is the right one for you?  A successful marriage isn't the one without ups and downs, but the one that has weathered the storms of life and became even stronger, together.  Kindly share your experience so someone can learn. Thank you. 

A lot of times, it is the little things that make a difference. You don't have to be a millionaire to be successful; it only takes a little act of kindness, a little smile, a little compliment, a little help, a little share. Just a little could mean so much to someone. And guess what, that's success. Happy weekend friends.😘😘

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A lot of times, because of trying to impress others, people tend to focus on their good qualities, capabilities, strengths, that they don't even remember to at least cover their weaknesses. They have become so perfect and overconfident that they no longer see or notice their weaknesses anymore. That's disastrous.  But the wise ones know that no one is perfect and are always looking for room to improve on themselves and change in those areas of weakness. Your good qualities which always make people to admire you should not get to your head, instead, be grateful at all times that GOD is gracious to you and look for ways to improve and get better. Photo Credit: Nemerulez

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It's a new week and I hope you enjoy every bit of it. I know we all are expecting one open doors or another and for that to be possible, you  must open your heart and be more receptive, you know like when you set your antenna so that the stations will be clear and reception will be uninterrupted. That's how you should be- spiritually and mentally alert to receive only what you are meant to receive. Because if you don't, you will experience a lot of interference, which will leave you confused.  There's so much going on right now and the only way not to get caught up with the lies and deceit is by setting your antenna right to receive right. Have yourself a great week. 😘😘

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I'd say that I'm neither clearly an extrovert nor an introvert, but have some characteristics of both. Which makes me an ambivert.  Your turn. Drop your comment let's know a bit of you. 😊😊

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This song, Accolade by I-fee Sound has received lots of appreciation since it was released in January, this year and we return all glory to GOD, because only HIM deserves all the accolades. If you haven't heard the song yet, simply click on the play button below. It will blow your mind. 

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Photo Credit: Nemerulez It is important that you know when to say NO without feeling guilty.  Know when to say NO to toxic people. Know when to say NO to people and situations that want to control you or your actions. Know when to say NO to doing things out of obligation.  Know when to say NO to your children when it's necessary. There are certain things that require to hear a NO from you.  I had to learn how to say NO after too many pitfalls; was really a tough decision, but it paid off! And it's paying off. Trust me, it pays to say NO.  There's no need to be diplomatic with the devil. Say NO and move on!  A person who does not recognise when to courageously say NO will always live in regrets. Don't let people or situation intimidate your decision! Say NO when you know in your heart that you have to! Soar this week friends. 😚😚  Photo Credit: Nemerulez

Nemerulez Your assignment is still waiting for you to come to maturity and realisation- it may take you 10,15,50 years, even more. BUT sometimes, it doesn't wait; it gets transfered to someone else who is capable of handling that assignment amidst other potentials he or she has.  So, instead of waiting for the big break, why not start little by little? You may think that what you're doing is not being recognised or that nobody is applauding you, but trust me, you're making a great impact. Someone out there is being blessed by your work. Keep at it with constant consistency. Your harvset will be great in due season.  Start and bloom from where you are. It is never too late or too early to start. Think about it.  Photo Credit: Nemerulez

I strongly believe that we are called to be of service to humanity in so many ways and my part is to help people. And i urge you, if you're in the position to help people, do it with all your heart, without manipulating or looking down on them, because you are privileged to do so and anyone of those could be in your position. I call it the essence of leading a higher life/purpose. Photo Credit: Nemerulez

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Don't hate anyone, no matter how much they've wronged you. Humility pays, no matter how wealthy you become. Keep being positive in spite of what you're going through. One of the ways to show gratitude is to give, even if you have little. Forgive all and most especially, forgive yourself and never stop praying for the best for everyone.  Photo Credit: Nemerulez

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Photo Credit: Nemerulez One of the enemy's deadly traps is to make us feel that no matter how hard we try, it's never enough. But hey, GOD'S LOVE validates us and that's all you need to know. The enemy's opinion doesn't count! So stop condemning yourself and start basking in GODS' love for you, because HE loves you excessively!

Photo Credit: Nemerulez The Good Samaritan wouldn't be remembered if he only had good intentions; he had money as well. He gave the innkeeper a two full days' worth of wages to take good care of the terribly wounded man, and promised to pay him for additional costs when he returned.  Truth is, that wouldn't have been possible if he had only good intentions, but no resources. He was able to go far with his good intentions because he had the resources and money to do so.  A lot of us have good intentions to help and take care of those in need, but are stuck (with our good intentions) because the resources are not there, yet.  But all hope is not lost dear friend, if you are such a person. You must know  that you have resources and money out there that GOD has readied for you, and it will come to you at the appointed time. Keep putting out your best out there; keep having the right attitude, even when things seem not to be working out; keep the positive ene

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Every good thing you do for people from a good heart, with good intention,  including the seemingly foolish ones you did or the ones you felt you shouldn't have done because the person didn't deserve it, are all "Seeds". You can never know what lies ahead, as life is full of surprises. But as children of GOD, we have been promised that all things work together for our good,and we have a glorious tomorrow because of CHRIST in us. So for your deeds, which are seeds, there will be a harvest time, always; and it's coming. Have a glorious week. 😚😚😚 Photo Credit: Nemerulez

Photo Credit: Nemerulez The  HOLY SPIRIT is still hovering, still creating, still tracking every last bit of human activity; and that's why you cannot thrive emotionally, intellectually, creatively, enjoy peace outside HIM.  So acknowledge and appreciate HIM always, by spending time with HIM, because HIS passionate goal is to enjoy HIS relationship with everyone who believes, and to guarantee that every believer's future is great, with the seal that we are  GODS' own.  Photo Credit: Nemerulez

Photo Credit: Nemerulez Here's my take on this amongst many other things I'd love to say:  Africa needs to empower her youths- equip them with skills in order to increase their ability to involve in decision makings, plannings  and delivery of services that  personally impact and influence their lives, the communities and the world as a whole. So that said! My advice to the African youths is: They should Read. Read. Read!!! They should know their rights. They should be an inspiration. They should learn about local issues; maybe there's an issue affecting the progress of your community and learning about it will help create solutions that will have an impact on you. They should speak out, but speak with wisdoms and let integrity be your watch word. Network with other inspiring youths. They should learn skills and use their creativity. Let love lead the way! I'll leave it here for now so I'll give you the opportunity

Photo Credit: Nemerulez I strongly feel this world is moving from what's right and wrong to what's acceptable and unacceptable. This means you maybe right but your opinion may not be accepted. And You maybe wrong but if your opinion is popular enough it will be accepted. That is why You can no longer fold your hands and wait for things to unfold. Be influential. Be outspoken.  Be on social media.  Make comments on posts that need your opinion. The world is changing. Play your part. I-fee Sound

Photo Credit: Nemerulez I'm I the only one feeling that something great is about to happen? Cheer up, all is well! Be excited and expectant, and let your hearts be filled with joy because the rain is here- hope you get that! The rain is here, the outpouring of the HOLY SPIRIT, the SUPERNATURAL! Stay tuned with HIM!