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Yes, a lot of us carry the weight of our stories around with us everyday. I agree that to some degree, our stories gives us comfort. You know that sick blanket kind of thing. But hey, that's the devil. It's his plan to indulge you in self-pity, which only limits you. I want you to know that, no matter how terrible your past is, you are not your story. The failed marriages, the failed businesses, loss of friendships and relationships, loss of jobs etc- you are still not your story! The only thing that holding on to the past does is to limit us. Stop talking about your stories, you are only building on them and making them kook bigger and badder each time you tell them, giving it more power to rule you. Stop carrying the weight of your story around. Let it go!

Something very important that I have learned in my journey is saying Yes to any challenge I face. It doesn't mean that I am happy with the situation or that I approve it, rather it means that i accept. It. Truth is, acknowledging that situation or your mistakes or any challenge removes resistance and obliterates stress and gives you greater power to change and recover from that situation. When you say yes to everything that comes up in your life, life becomes easier. You will develop a loving and accepting side.

The taste is not the same in marriage. It's not bitter, but it sha tastes different from the days of dating and courtship. That's the reality. The more reason you must look before you leap. Don't be carried away by sentiments.  Marry someone who genuinely loves you and can .. whether the challenges of life with you in peace and not in pieces. Marry someone who is ready to listen (and make adjustments where and when necessary) to you whenever you want to express how you feel.  If children start coming 9 months later, there's every possibility that things will become a bit heated up; the anxiety of caring for your new born, the fears, all the attention on the baby, etc. And if no conscious effort is made by the two of you to create time for each other, It might lead to a serious crack in your marriage.  And it is very important, my dear Ladies, that you marry a man who is 101 percent emotionally and mentally sound, because you will need it in the long run

A lot of us got scammed because we weren't true to ourselves. We lacked the foresight to appreciate ourselves and know that we are Jewels of inestimable value. We had to go through so much before we realised who we truly are. See friend, stop needing validation from people, and start discovering who you are.

Why do most men cheat? I said most, because, I certainly know that not all men cheat. We've been manipulated to believe that they were designed that way. And I wonder, did our good GOD take HIS time to create man in his own image just to tag him promiscuous? Where did you guys get this misconception from? Ohh I get it, King David ( a man after GODS' own heart) and King Solomon ( a man filled with wisdom), oh even Abraham. You use these men to justify your immoral acts? These were men who made mistakes, and given another chance, would have done better, I believe. Because, if not, why did Solomon later write the book of Proverbs and talked about never to give room to "strange women." Guys, wake up, you weren't designed that way, rather it's the devil's plan to pull you down the same way he pulled down so many!

What frequency are you on right now? Me, I am on a happy and gratitude frequency. 

What do you think about this quote? 

The walls have ears, they say. Any word that leaves your mouth becomes life. The more reason you should be careful what you say. Choose to speak the right words and be positive at all times. At least, if you must talk, talk the things that when they come to life, you will be pleased. Remember, life and death is in your tongue.