It is a gift to have someone who is honest with you!
We live in a world where people are totally dishonest. They paint an "all is well picture" with you, but deep down, they are bitter at you and would not want to have anything to do with you. They even go to the extent of laughing with you, but the worse is what they think in their hearts towards you! Which one do you prefer?
We do not like hearing the truth! We prefer being bitten behind our backs to hearing the honest and unadulterated truth. Truth scares us, even when it has promised to set us free!