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YOUR SEED PREDICTS YOUR FUTURE. 

WHEN YOU ARE ALWAYS CRYING WOLF WHEN REALLY THERE IS NONE, WHEN THE REAL WOLF COMES, NO ONE WILL COME TO YOUR RESCUE. THERE IS TRULY NO REASON FOR YOU TO ALWAYS PLAY SMART TO FRIENDS WHO HAVE PROVEN TO BE HONEST.

Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof (Proverbs 18:21).  God spoke creation into being through words. When He said, "Let there be light", light came into being (Genesis 1:3). Most of Genesis chapter one is about God speaking creation into being. Have you ever wondered why God had to "talk" to bring forth these things instead of making them? It's because by talking, you create a sound code. Speech creates sound waves, and the original source material for creation is sound, because that's the energy produced by words.  Sound code therefore, is the instruction, meaning, account, or information embedded in a sound wave. Sometime ago, a scientist performed an experiment to ascertain the effect of words on water. He had water in different jars and would talk to the different containers of water. After a long while, each of them formed crystals. The ones he talked nicely to formed beautiful crystal...

You are on earth to solve a problem. Everything created is a solution..to someone, somewhere and at some time. So when your creativity solves a problem, you are rewarded accordingly.

I Just want to take a moment to appreciate all mothers out there. You all are amazing. Wow...I celebrate you all.. is it... The way you multi task? Keeping your homes together and looking after your families?  Or... The way you pray endlessly for the success of your marriage, your husband's career,  your children?  Or.. The way you give selflessly that you forget to include yourself in the menu (not necessarily food menu)? Or... The way you stay up all night looking after your newborns and having little or no sleep afterwards?  Or... The way people misunderstand you for missing out on  their weddings/occasions and not sending congratulatory messages to them and as such they term you "not happy for them"? Or... The way you get knackered out after trying to do so many things at the same time?  I could go on and on and on and on....You all are doing amazingly great. I want to say to you "well done"!. I celebr...

They say nothing is a waste...that's true, even your used tea bags. Here's how it works.. After brewing your tea, keep the tea bags in your refrigerator (not in the freezer) instead of throwing them away. Those nights when you find it difficult to sleep, take out two(chilled bags) and place them on your eyes. They suit the eyes and relieves them of the stress of focusing too much on the computer screen or your phones.  And voilà, you will have a very sound sleep. I tried it and it works...

YOU CANNOT GET BETTER IF YOU DO NOT PRACTICE. 

IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE CAUGHT IN THE ACT OF SIN, DO NOT BE AT THE DOOR OF SIN.

1. Not attending a friend's wedding  or   2. Not calling a friend that lost a closest relation and not calling or visiting  when she (his wife) puts to bed?

HASTY SHORTCUTS LEAD TO POVERTY. SHORTCUTS EVENTUALLY TURN OUT TO BE LONGER, AND WITH TOO MANY REGRETS.  

I was going through an archive where I saved pictures I took since undergraduate days. As I flipped through the pictures, memories of events kept flashing back with reference from each picture. I smiled at some of them while I also felt low in spirit for a few of them.  The flashes of my thoughts served me with most of the issues I delt with in my life, transcending from teenage stage to an adult. In all of the smiles and cold feelings I expressed while I went through those pictures, there was a strong sense of fulfilment that stems from my response to the "yeses" and No's" life offered me. My resolve was to develop an antagonistic response that countered the unpleasant circumstances in my life. This antagonism is not the kind that is associated with violence or that which poses as a societal threat, but a will that is as strong as reason and knowledge.  The life we live is driven by our choices. You can get back up again no matter how much of your self ...

I remember an adage I heard when I was growing up, it says "anything done in a haste is never done well". Do you agree or disagree to this saying? Please bring in your beautiful comments.  Stay well..

TRUTH HURTS SOMETIMES..BUT SAY IT ANYWAYS. 

IF YOU MUST SCORE, YOU MUST SET THE BALL ROLLING.

A lot of eyebrows have been raised as to how come the "drop outs" turned the table of life to face them as inventors,financial giants and leaders. You know, life as it is has a lot to offer those who dare boldly to distinguish themselves from cultural stagnation.  I was sharing with a friend a few things I have discovered. He was perplexed when I told him that even the university curriculum doesn't educate you, it only inspires your mind to learn and search for knowledge. If you find this ideology questionable what do you think would be the possible rationale behind the "drop outs" who have defied the norm and have risen above the overview of their classroom teacher.  Success and failure are neither accidental nor mysterious. It is principle based. The good thing is that these principles produce the same results irrespective of the race, gender, or societal status of the person who has engaged it. You are guaranteed to experience good success if you ...

That heaven is a place where you will experience no pain or sorrow, but joy all the way. ...Listen and be blessed. http://youtu.be/AP9LWrzcgaQ

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO PUT A PRICE ON EVERY SINGLE HELP YOU RENDER. EVERYTHING ISN'T ABOUT THE MONEY.

http://www.naijaloaded.com.ng/2015/02/10/music-deker-onyenekwu/ Stage Name: DEKER Dem Boi....#YemEfe# Deker, a game-changing contemporary artiste, brings a refreshing mix of rhythmic hip hop and High Life which he called "HIPLIFE" to the Nigerian music scene. Born Bernard Deker Chukwuka.  Born from the South-Eastern part of Nigeria. He seamlessly weaves lyrics through English, Ibo and Yoruba languages; winning a broad-based appeal across diverse audiences.   DEkER is the first artiste on the DIHOO RECORDS Label.

http://youtu.be/Rw2rN_w0QA8. Hello friends, this song touched my soul, thought i should share with you. Its a beautiful song by I-fee. A singer, music producer and audio/sound engineer. Listen and enjoy.

When someone or a friend in need comes to you for assistance and you are in a position to assist the person, please do not turn the person down. You might never know the courage the person had to put up to come to you in the first place. Some people are not good at going to people to ask for help, not necessarily because of pride,  but because of  the person's nature or as a result of disappointments.  GOD created and blessed us so we can also be blessings to other people. Do not brag and glory in your riches or subdue others. Practice hospitality. You might never know when you meet the angel that will turn your life around. Ask my father Abraham! 

DO NOT WAIT FOR TOMORROW WHAT YOU NEED TO DO TODAY!

Dear Nemerulez Blog lovers,  hope you all are having a great day already. I am glad you take out time to visit my blog, I appreciate so much. As a publisher, I write with inspiration, not to entertain, but to impact lives and also to learn from your inspiring comments.  Ok...just a little dose of positive vibe to keep you going.  I would like you to know that people will always want to talk you down and discourage you.  But do not give them room to infect you with their negative comments and suggestions. Be strong and courageous, and know that as long as you are doing the right thing, you are good to go. Do not listen to side talks or name callings. You owe them no response or clarification as to how well you are doing even though it annoys them. Guard your loins so you can stand against their negativity, because there will always be people who do not just like your guts or cannot stand your intellect, skills, knowledge, success. But the good thing is when you kno...

IF YOU GENUINELY APPRECIATE GOOD THINGS, GET READY TO HAVE YOURS IN RETURN-IT IS THAT MAGNETIC!

The way we see ourselves, our self-image is a pre-determiner of how we receive and digest instruction, how we see others and how we interface with people. Most times people don't know the way they see themselves and due to that lack of awareness, their perception of others is questionable. You can only see someone else as valuable, loveable, gifted, productive and all of that if the image you have about yourself is healthy. Although you might not see everyone the way you see yourself due to the current state of society that has instilled in us a more sensitive level of consciousness, your first opinion of someone else shouldn't by default be negative. Developing a healthy self-image requires that you first of all accept who you are from the eyes of your creator. Because he sees you as wonderfully and beautifully made, graced with gifts and abilities that have the potency of bringing the world to a stand still. When you accept his truth-based view about yourself and begi...

GREAT THINGS CAN HAPPEN THROUGH YOU TO OTHERS. 

Happy Valentine to you all my friends. May this love grow stronger in our hearts today and always. Let us show love to one another, not just today, but everyday. As we celebrate this day, may the love of GOD fill our hearts.

SAY THIS "THIS LITTLE LIGHT OF MINE, AM GONNA LET IT SHINE". LET IT SHINE UNTIL IT BECOMES EVEN BRIGHTER. YOU ARE BIGGER THAN YOU THINK.

"Marry him for who he is and not for what he has" I just have a little word to share with my lady friends.. This might sound like a cliche, but i will still go ahead and say it. Whether you are already in a relationship, or you are about to start one, or you are still waiting to meet the guy, you must look out for these qualities: He must know GOD deeply: Be wise to look into his christian life if truly he is a good christian who knows GOD deeply. If you have dated someone who does not know GOD, you will understand that no matter how hard you try, you can never enjoy peace. As a christian woman, you do not want to have anything to do with someone who does not know GOD! There are a lot of men who claim to be christians, but they are only church goers. So ladies, if what you truly want is to have a peaceful and loving marriage, then watch out for this quality. He should be a good listener: The truth is women like to talk. We have a lot to talk about. Having a m...

WEEPING MAY ENDURE FOR A NIGHT, BUT JOY COMES IN THE MORNING. NEVER BE IN A HURRY TO GIVE UP. JUST LIKE THE WOMAN IN LABOUR, THE EXCRUCIATING PAIN SHE FEELS WHEN SHE IS ABOUT TO DELIVER IS ACTUALLY BECAUSE THE BABY IS ALSO FIGHTING TO MAKE HER WAY INTO THE WORLD. THAT IS NOT THE TIME FOR HER TO GIVE UP, BUT TO PUSH ONE MORE TIME TO DELIVER HER JOY. THE AMAZING THING ABOUT PAIN IS THAT WHEN YOUR JOY COMES, YOU WILL NEVER REMEMBER THE PAIN YOU FELT- THE PAIN DISAPPEARS. SO WHY GIVE UP IN THE FIRST PLACE? ALL YOU NEED IS ONE MORE PUSH. REMEMBER, THE GREATER ONE LIVES IN YOU, THAT MEANS YOU HAVE THE ABILITY!  

I share with you some of the salient components some parents have either overlooked, or are not aware of regarding development style of their children. Let us however, take a closer look at these variables. 1. I find parents comparing their children with other children or even with siblings. This comparison dampens the self-confidence of a child which can transcend into the manifestation of other negative attitudes. Do not compare your children, rather celebrate their little achievements and motivate them to aspire to great inspirations.  2. Due to the cumbersome nature of training up a child, most parents send their children to boarding school as an escape route from the "stress". I am not negating the importance of boarding school, but my point is this, the boarding school isn't meant for every child. Therefore it's your responsibility to study your child and underscore what is suitable for your child. Don't try to escape from the responsibility, do ...

WHEN YOU DESIRE SOMETHING YOU HAVE NEVER HAD, YOU MUST BE WILLING TO DO SOMETHING YOU HAVE NEVER DONE.

An adage says, "do not put all your eggs in one basket". My colleague and I debated on this adage, and she is of the opinion  that though the adage might be right, she feels it could have been "be sure of the basket before putting all your eggs in it". She gave her reasons for not totally agreeing with the first. She said, even though the world is filled with bad and mean people, there are still few good people out there.  She gave me a literal example, that her mother deals with eggs and for over 30 years, she has never lost one. She ensured that the baskets were(are) tightly knitted,and also use juke bags to wrap the baskets before conveying them to her clients. Hmm. I must say this is deep. Please guys what you think?  I would like you to share your thoughts on this.  Keep soaring!!!

Happy New Week my friends. Hope you all had a wonderful weekend. Did you rest well?  Were you able to sort out those personal stuff? How about that thought you wanted to share with your spouse,  friend, sibling? Did you achieve something over the weekend? Did you unwind?  You know life is too precious to let yourself burdened with issues.  You do not need to allow yourself to go through that emotional stress all because you refused to do the right thing.  The truth is, if the person you call your friend cannot see through you and understand your feelings,  then I am afraid to say you are not in the right place.  Just want to lift your spirit as you walk through this week. This is very important: you cannot do it all by yourself. Ask GOD to help you and see you through. Do not lean on your own understanding or your own ability. It is way easier to rely on GOD for guidance than on your own skills.   Something remarkable happened to me yest...

WAITING IS PART OF PROTOCOL AND DISCIPLINE. WHATEVER IT IS YOU ARE WAITING ON GOD FOR,  YOU MUST TRUST HIM TO DO AS HE HAS PROMISED.  YOU DON'T NEED TO ANTAGONISE YOURSELF AND EVERYONE AROUND YOU. WAIT PATIENTLY ON HE WHO NEVER FAILS! THE SEASON OF WAITING COULD BE BORING AND DISCOURAGING, ESPECIALLY WHEN WHAT YOU ARE WAITING FOR SEEMS TO BE TAKING FOREVER TO COME. STILL WAIT. YOU ARE DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY LEARNING TO BE PATIENT. AND WHEN IT IS YOUR TURN, NOTHING WILL STOP YOU.  

BEWARE OF WHO YOU TELL YOUR PROBLEMS, BECAUSE THAT MIGHT BE WHAT THEY WISHED YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE. NEME...

THE MOMENT YOU ARE CLEAR ABOUT WHAT YOUR ASSIGNMENT IS ON EARTH, YOU WILL GAIN SPEED; BUT RUNNING AWAY FROM FAILING, KEEPS YOU AWAY FROM SUCCESS. 

THINGS ARE SHIFTING. GOOD THINGS ARE HAPPENING. LET YOUR HEART BE OPEN AND EXPECTANT.  BECAUSE GOOD THINGS ONLY COME TO THOSE WHO EXPECT THEM.  

Marriage is a gift in itself. This gift is appreciated and meaningful when there is a consistent "kiononia" between both parties. "kiononia" is translated from the greek word "koivwvia"  which means "communication" or "joint participation" or "fellowship". All these definitions point towards one obvious direction...and in the marriage contest, it refers to a  consistent, meaningful, integration of couples.  That was just to strengthen what you hopefully know about marriage. This bit is basically for men to be aware of what happens in a relationship where the husband doesn't listen to his wife. For instance, you just got back home from a long day at work and your wife starts talking about her day and all of the antagonistic experiences at work, frustrations with her boss, school run, and all of other things. Some how in the midst of her words, you pay less attention, get busy and uninterested. If you don't ke...

SOMETIMES YOU WILL NEVER KNOW THE TRUE VALUE OF A MOMENT UNTIL IT BECOMES A MEMORY. LEARN TO CHERISH EVERY MOMENT SPENT AND SHARED AND DO NOT TAKE IT FOR GRANTED. 

REMEMBER,  THE PRAYER ONE PRAYS FOR ANYONE, IS THE SAME PRAYER ONE PRAYS FOR ONESELF. NEME...

I define "Joy" as an internal, firm conviction of possibilities. There is a big difference between being "excited" and being "joyful". Excitement is referred to as a feeling of great enthusiasm and eagerness. A thrilling sensation, exciting anticipation and all that is associated with elation. As much as being excited gives us some level of motivation and a good feel in the pursuit of our interests in life, I however was amazed to find out that is has some negative synonyms like "agitation, delirium,  fever". It has been in record that excitement has driven a lot of people into various illicit and maladaptive behaviours like car-racing which has high risk tendency, drinking excessively, violence etc. I know you might have heard stories of people who nailed significant jobs and due to excitement went to hang out with friends, got drunk and had a car crash. I also believe you have heard stories of people who on the day they passed out from NYSC,...