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Too often, our actions are dictated by the need to please people. We care so much about what "certain people" may think or feel, that with every step, we always look over our shoulder to see whether they are smiling or frowning. I am not saying that we should go about hurting people, stepping on their toes and asking what they will do about it or going about living our lives without considering how our loved ones feel. Certainly not!  Learn to please GOD in every thing you do, without having to always base your decisions on what people will say! It takes a man with the heart for GOD to please GOD. 

Who are your friends?

Does your man seek your opinion about his personal plans and goals? Does he build his plans to accommodate your needs and interests? Or does he tend to forget your existence at such times?  If your man does not show clear signs that he always has you in mind when decisions on every aspect of his life are being taken, then you should look closely and deeply into that relationship before venturing into marriage with him. If a man loves you and would love to build his life with you, he will get you involved in his personal life! Do not be deceived!

Some people may not have believed that you will become who you are today. Maybe they knew you when you could barely eat or pay your bills, or they knew your "story". So they analysed you and did the whole arithmetic and came to a conclusion on how your life should end. Hahahahaaaa.. Someone knows what I'm talking about? Well, my friend, be rest assured that someone out there will hate the fact that you succeeded. Get used to it!   But what do you do in such situation? I tell you what; KEEP THE TRACK, KEEP GETTING BETTER! KEEP SUCCEEDING!!!

You know a child by his actions. So no matter the age of a person, look out for his action; that will help you know if truly you are dealing with a child or mature adult. Maturity is not measured by age, but by ones actions and thoughts.  Thank you for the nice piece Uchechi.

Many will say they are loyal friends, but who can find one who is truly reliable?  

GOD wants us to be careful for posterity sake, in the things you do now else you are laying up burdens for your children which they will be helpless against.

Never you brag about it when others make a wrong choices and fail. Do not judge them. It is always easy to not curse GOD because you have not had the occasion to. Don't judge others! Know that GOD is behind every right choice you make, not your own will or power. 

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Paul Tournier, a well known Christian psychiatrist, feels so strongly about the need for mutual understanding between husband and wife, that he says couple should become preoccupied with it- lost in it- engrossed to the fullest in understanding each other without limits. Such purpose would lead a couple directly into the benefits of a highly effective marriage. As much as marriage depends upon how much a couple loves each other, they must learn to understand each other also. Remember that in GODS plan, the man and the woman need each other. 

Stop and ask yourself today, "How do I really feel about myself?"

When the righteous is on authority, things just begin to fall into place. 

You can have the most expensive car, but if you do not know how to take the wheel or apply the brakes, it will never get you where you need to go. One might say, "If I don't know how to drive, I will hire a driver". Sure, it is nice to let others do the driving sometimes, but that puts you at the mercy of their direction. Take control of your life! Get back into the driver's seat and let GOD take the wheel and drive you where only HIM has told you to go.

GOD will never give you a vision you will fulfil alone. HE always brings someone (people) to compensate for your weakness. Remember HE gave Joshua to Moses to be his personal assistance. So, don't be afraid if your vision is scary! It sure has to be scary you know! See you at the top!

Most times, what you need is already in your hands. The only problem is that most people are too distracted to recognise it.

You will agree with me that a newly pruned tree does not look good at all.  I have a word for someone out there right now. See, when GOD starts to cut back certain things in your life (in order to redirect your energies, mould and restructure your life), the truth is you won't look too good either. Sometimes this means, having fewer things for a while, letting go of things you thought would always be there, and a lot of people, family and friends might not even understand why.  When a tree is pruned, it grows well, likewise your hair. So, GOD knows what needs to be cut back in your life. HE knows what needs to be cut off. Trust HIM in whatever situation you are in right now. Stop asking why me! Just pray even when you don't understand it. I have been in a situation where I asked why me, but later on I was grateful to GOD that because I came out a better and more refined person, filled with great assurance of why I was created! You too will have your testimony!

Take a look at Joshua, he went to the Promised Land (filled with milk and honey), saw and tasted the blessings, but had to battle with the thought of convincing people (the lsraelites) who had no idea or at most no interest in what he's talking about.  Is that your situation right now? Have you been asking, "how long do i have to keep this promise in my heart and not have a soul to share with? Wait! Your appointment is still on GOD'S calendar. I assure you that the GOD who started HIS great work in you would bring it to a flourishing finish! 

When you manipulate words to get your own way, you go wrong!

When a man loves his wife, cares for her, gives her security and assurance, she will remain his loyal and trusted friend. 

Conversation is not a need that can be met exclusively in marriage. Our need for conversation can be met by almost anyone.  Both the man and the woman, it is important to know if conversation is your most important emotional need, because whoever meets it best will deposit so many love units and falling in love with the person is most times impossible to avoid! So, if it is your need, ensure that the person you are dating and planning to get married to meets it the best and most often.  Couples who have great conversation (hey..I don't mean just talking too much without making sense, because body language is also part of conversation, you feel me***) enjoy the company and warmth of one another! No wonder GOD was always coming down in the cool evening to converse with Adam and Eve! 

Whether you are being lifted from the mud, turned on the wheel, or "made over again," at all times and in every situation, you are always in HIS hands! That's right!  When you are broken and wounded, when others give up on you, when you think you can't take it another day, at your lowest point, GOD still has HIS hands on you....and will always!

Has life buried your dream? Have others told you its too late? Don't believe it! Why? Because, Robert Lopatin became a doctor in his mid-fifties, Grandma Moses took up painting when she was seventy-five and had a celebrated twenty-six year career as an artist. No ah started building the ark at five - hundred. Listen, we are talking about a GOD-given dream that leads to GOD-honouring results! Pursue it no matter how far fetched it seems! Dreams are the joy of your present and hope of your future, like your children.  Protect them! Feed them! Encourage them to grow. For as long as you have a dream, you will never grow old! I mean that literally!  In spite of betrayal by his family and all that Joseph went through, it was his dream that carried him all the way to his destiny as rule of Egypt. 

Wherever you are today, look at your beliefs - they got you there!

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We all have a past. Unfortunately, this past has held a lot of people prisoners, they make excuses like "you know what I've been through has really held me from moving forward". Does this sound like someone out there?  You really need to get over your past! One thing is certain, until we break the chain that ties us to our past, we can never move forward!  Bitterness is like a chain around the neck of your potential; choking the life of your freedom, joy, open doors. Maybe you have been hurt and you are saying "I will never forgive them until they admit to what they have done to me". Does this sound like someone out there? What if they never admit they hurt you? You sure will get more hurt. I know how this feels because I have been there.  You need not let your happiness depend on people's ability to do right - especially if they are not in the habit of doing right. So, stop giving them too much power to keep you down. Get over your past. Le...

It is a terrible thing for one not to know what one wants. It means that you will continue to accept anything that comes your way- anything goes.  But how do you even know what you want when you do not know who you are? Until you become aware of your worth, know that you are as valuable to GOD as JESUS is, you might as well keep marking time for the devil and letting him use you as he wishes.  A lot of folks are victims of this terrible situation of which yours truly was also a victim, until I discovered that I am special; special enough for my LORD JESUS to give HIS life for me. I became aware of my worth and how fearfully and wonderfully made I am. I realised that I was not an accident, that GOD created me for a purpose. It is amazing to know how to overome challenges  without wavering.  So, do not let the devil serve you dishes you do not want. Know who you are and what you want and by so, you will be able to stand unshakeable at situations.