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Everything that happens to us happens for a purpose. And sometimes, one thing leads to another.  Instead of locking yourself up in the cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassments and failures, treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self-improvement and success.  Truth is, there's nothing like "coincidence or happenstance." IT IS ALL IN THE PLAN!  Photo Credit: pixabay 

Sometimes, when the situation seemed unbearable, all I needed was to remember how I made it through the past challenges, how I survived them, what I did to pull through and all. Usually, it's hard to believe when you seem to have nothing to cheer you up or encourage you. It's hard to believe when the situation is unbearable and all that surrounds you is darkness. But as they say, only the wise don't forget where they are coming from.  Take your time, sit back and remember where GOD brought you out from and how HE helped you through those difficult challenges of the past, then draw strength from them. You will see that the situation that seem too big will begin to seem small.  Be encouraged my friend, nothing is too hard for GOD. Photo Credit: Pixabay

Thoughts are powerful indeed, and as conscious beings, we have the privilege to control them - by choice. Unfortunately, most people lack this knowledge and they allow their thoughts to rule their lives without even being aware of it. Will you live a life controlled by random thoughts or will you choose your thoughts carefully to develop a success mindset? When you get a hold of your thoughts you have the power to create wonderful things in your life, all by just taking command, training and instructing your mind to think properly.  Photo Credit: pixabay 

When you do not treat yourself the way you want others to treat you, you can never change the way things are. So, question is, how do you treat yourself?  Photo Credit: Pixabay

If we want a joyous life, we must think joyous thoughts. If we want a prosperous life, we must think prosperous thoughts. If we want a loving life, we must think loving thoughts. Whatever we send out mentally or verbally will come back to us in like form. That's just the way it is! Remember, thoughts are like seeds- they grow eventually! What thoughts are you feeding  your mind with.  Photo Credit: Pixabay.

To make your relationship work,  you must learn to focus on what you appreciate about the other person, and not your complaints about him or her. As easy as this may seem, though, it is easier to appreciate ones good when the person is always willing to get better. It's actually a two way thing because it takes two people to have a relationship.  Photo Credit: Pixabay

Hard times  can make the nights seem endless, but have you noticed that somehow, you feel better in the morning? Even though the mornings sometimes seem heavy, yet, there's so much hope for the new day. Alot of people have experienced miracles in the course of a new day, you too will! Do you believe that?  Here's what I've learnt- to give my burdens less attention and my blessings much more by being grateful. No matter how hard your situation is, there are so many people in worse. We are what we think and we live what we believe! It's all in your mind, which life you desire to have. Photo Credit: pixabay 

I have only watched Big Brother Naija once, say for like 15 to 20 minutes. Reason being that, since I hate judging, I didn't want to conclude based on other peoples opinion. I wanted to have my own opinion about the housemates. But then, someone stood out from all the housemates, Ifuennada. Her intellect, go-getter spirit,and the fact that she's funny wanted to glue me on to the screen, but hey, I had so much to do and was already feeling like I had wasted my 20minutes.  Today, I learnt that she was evicted from the house some days ago and that Big Brother has given the audience the opportunity to vote back their evicted housemates into the house. So, I'm using my platform to vote Ifuennada back into the Big Brother Naija House. I believe she still has so much to offer.  Well done Girl. You have my Vote! Guys, please vote for her! Photo Credit: @Ifuennada Instagram

As bad as things may look, there certainly must be something to be grateful to GOD for. If you focus on the situation at hand, you are only giving more room to be anxious which will automatically affect the rest of your day(s). So if you ask me, I would say, you should not focus on the things you do not want or the mistakes that happened. Focus on the positive things in your life! And trust me, you should be happy for the mistakes, because "you just got wiser!'

"When the student is ready, the teacher will show up." How ready are you?