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Sometimes, tough times could create your future, because necessity is the mother of invention. It is when things are really hard that people work harder. Someone once said, only fools seek for a problem-free life. Do you agree? Well, whatever is the case, do not surrender your life to problems. Be in control and avoid depression! 

I admire these  women so much, Taraji P.Henson and Genevive Nnaji. Aside their beauty, which is very secondary to me, their stories are my strong points! These women had a very rough, tough life in the beginning, yet they did not give up or right themselves off. Instead, they persevered. They knew that they deserved better than what life brought to them. So looking back from where they are coming from, these women have paid their dues to really be enjoying the very good things they are getting from life! Consistency! They never gave up! They are just so on point and still down to earth that you can relate so easily with them like ordinary people. Yes it is the ordinary people that make the extraordinary. Just want to encourage someone out there by saying this, DO NOT GIVE UP ON LIFE. DO NOT GIVE UP ON YOURSELF. LIFE WILL PAY YOU BACK FOR YOUR PATIENCE AND CONSISTENCE!  I admire you and I celebrate you, Taraji. P.Henson and Genevive Nnaji. More power to your elbows! 

Too often,our actions are dictated, not by purpose, but by a need to please. We care so much about people's opinions- people who are still struggling with discovering themselves. In spite of fear, people still beat the odds, only because they have discovered their purpose. Have you? Or are you still waiting for someone to dictate your destiny? 

Because something seems difficult for you, do not think that it is impossible for someone else. Difficult situations arise because someone somewhere is capable of solving it. Could it be you?  Impossible to me simply means I'm possible! So dare it! No limits to what you are capable of achieving, only if you can dare yourself to face that challenge! You cannot keep running away from difficult challenges, no you can't. Because life will continue to throw stones at you if you continue to run away or concede to impossibilities.  So many times I get so exhausted, I just feel like I should take a break from writing, but you know what, I am an excuse killer. What I do in such situation is that I try to sort myself out and give myself some time to relax by engaging in something else, something fun, then viola, I am back on my feet!  If you need results, you must focus on the process first. That is what makes you who you become eventually, after going through hard times! 

The great obstacle to every man's progress is fear.  Sometimes, it is the failure or crisis of the past that haunts us; thereby affecting the present.  This has been said many times, that many great men and women who ever accomplished great things in all spheres of life were "failures" at one time or the other, but they overcame their failures by being determined (never to quit) and courageous.  Do not wish to become, or should I say, never follow anyone who brags that they have never failed or made a mistake! Either they are lying to you or they have never tried anything!  No matter the state of your failure, never surrender to it. Never give up! Never right yourself off or conclude death on your case! Be determined that though you failed, you will surely bounce back, better, stronger and wiser! Failure is no crime, but low aim! So determine to aim higher! Keep hope alive. Forge ahead and conquer fear.  When you conquer fear, you have conquered fail

Mentors are people who have done what you are trying to do. They have achieved what you are trying to achieve in your relationship, career, business and are very successful. If you want to succeed in whatever aspect, you need a mentor.  From experience, there  are many challenges I could have easily overcome earlier in life had I the wisdom of experienced person(s) guiding me. I did not have to learn by experience what I could have learnt by wisdom.  With mentors watching over you, for instance your relationship, they provide timely solutions to challenges which could occur as a result of one's immaturity, in-experience in handling a relationship, inability to make good decisions. They will guide you through making the right choices in any aspect of your life.  Mentors do not jump on you from nowhere, you have to seek them out yourself if you desire their wealth of experience, my mom will always say.  Many people could have been saved from pains and regrets of wro

Hello friends, hope you all are having a great year already. Is it too early to ask? (Smiles). Oh well, you'd better not underestimate yourself, because that change you are expecting can happen in a split second. How is your resolution coming along? I know a lot of people wrote down their resolutions and are already up on it. Keep it up friend.  Should I tell you what will help you achieve your set goals? Focusing on the habit, and not on the result. Do you know that it is very possible for your set goals to overwhelm you such that you get stuck even before setting off, if you try to execute them all at once? That will be very unhealthy and might lead to serious depression. Some people have lost it because they chose to focus on results instead of focusing on the habits.  It doesn't make sense rushing off and at the end you hit the rock bottom. Frequency matters more than quantity. For instance, your resolution is to lose weight, make it a habit to go to the gym e

Are you always looking at the difficulties, problems and challenges you face? You cannot possibly go through life like that, building on the negative. We all know that as long as there is life, challenges will definitely come. But as a winner that you are, you can turn every challenge into an opportunity for growth and maturity.  For couples who have been through a very rough path, you and your partner can learn from experiences and use them to forge a stronger bond of love and friendship.  Like my mom will always say, "cakes go through fire before they become "a delight". It takes only wisdom for couples who truly love themselves and know where they are coming from, to deal with challenges together and learn from it!  Most times, challenges are "a wake up call". So instead of looking for an escape from the situation, try and learn from it!

Where you are is almost as important as what you are. Where you are determines what grows inside of you. Your weaknesses or your strengths require a climate to grow.  When you are with the right person(s), the best in you comes out. There is best in every human being. But it will only take the right person, the right circumstance to bring it out.  Be careful to choose right, as to who you be with or where you go to or who you work for. It is very important if you want to succeed! Happy New Year once again! 

Happy New You Year!!!!!!!!! (( Guys Thank you for your concerns I was no where NEAR the isolated hotel fire that happened in Dubai last night! I'm poppin on a mega yacht in the ocean turnt).... No one was reported to be hurt Prayers that everyone stays safe Happy New # YOU Year!!!! Here's my grateful prayer to the WORLD!!..... Everyone knows I come from very humble beginnings walked the rough ghetto streets of Watts, Homeless and raised m a single parent home... Mother addicted to alcohol for 27 years, father left us on our own.... For on drugs and alcohol... I've been exposed to drug, murder, homies in and out of jail, prostitution, racism, we never ever had money, never had food and it was 4 of us..... But the GOOD LORD FAVOR covered us.... The struggles developed character and a hunger for life and success that's unmatched... To the Lord Jesus Christ be all the glory..... Father God I thank you for everything that you are and everything that you c

Hello Nemerulez Blog Lovers, so sorry I have been a bit under the weather, that is why you have not read from me. But I am better now. Thank you so much for making 2015 a great year for me. I look forward to having another great time with you all on this platform. May GOD'S grace be sufficient for us all as we soar higher in the year 2016. Let's rock it!!!

Just because you hear something often does not make it true! Mind yourself what you listen to!

Take time to reflect on where GOD has brought you from. Reflect on where you desire to be! Reflect on the good and make more good to happen. Reflect on your mistake, and learn from it, put it behind you and move on to get better!  Nothing you are doing is worthless, as long as you are doing the right thing.  You realise that  during a car race, the winner is observed to always drive corner by corner! Do not measure yourself with the success of others! Take your time and keep moving. Do not stop!  Your chances of winning are as big as the sky! Keep keeping up!

Merry Christmas to you all my family and friends. Joy is the season, and it is all yours now and forever. Amen. Let us celebrate!

"What exactly works for me?" Too many how to do's and why you should not do's. Have you taken time to really find out what works for you? This question popped up in my head, and I thought I should share with you friends. You must find out what works for you as an individual, as a couple, as a student etc . Do not assume that because a particular principle worked for a certain person or couple, same would work for you. GOD made us special, so discover your specialty. Food for thought! 

In a True friendship, ego is less important. Truth is an absolute ultimate goal, not a moving target. Friendship/Relationship is valued and guarded, not inconsequential. Success is not as fulfilling as faithfulness. The key to a healthy relationship is honour, love and respect.  As the year wraps up, let us drop every negativity, and chanel our energies into ensuring a more positive living. At the end, what matters is the lives you and I affected, positively or negatively. Nothing else.