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Too often, our actions are dictated by the need to please people. We care so much about what "certain people" may think or feel, that with every step, we always look over our shoulder to see whether they are smiling or frowning. I am not saying that we should go about hurting people, stepping on their toes and asking what they will do about it or going about living our lives without considering how our loved ones feel. Certainly not!  Learn to please GOD in every thing you do, without having to always base your decisions on what people will say! It takes a man with the heart for GOD to please GOD. 

Who are your friends?

Does your man seek your opinion about his personal plans and goals? Does he build his plans to accommodate your needs and interests? Or does he tend to forget your existence at such times?  If your man does not show clear signs that he always has you in mind when decisions on every aspect of his life are being taken, then you should look closely and deeply into that relationship before venturing into marriage with him. If a man loves you and would love to build his life with you, he will get you involved in his personal life! Do not be deceived!

Some people may not have believed that you will become who you are today. Maybe they knew you when you could barely eat or pay your bills, or they knew your "story". So they analysed you and did the whole arithmetic and came to a conclusion on how your life should end. Hahahahaaaa.. Someone knows what I'm talking about? Well, my friend, be rest assured that someone out there will hate the fact that you succeeded. Get used to it!   But what do you do in such situation? I tell you what; KEEP THE TRACK, KEEP GETTING BETTER! KEEP SUCCEEDING!!!

You know a child by his actions. So no matter the age of a person, look out for his action; that will help you know if truly you are dealing with a child or mature adult. Maturity is not measured by age, but by ones actions and thoughts.  Thank you for the nice piece Uchechi.

Many will say they are loyal friends, but who can find one who is truly reliable?