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No one wants to intimately associate with fault finders who have cynical outlook to life. No one wants to make friends with people who complain all the time or who are negative in their approach to living! We all want positive people in our lives, isn't it? But you cannot attract positive people into your life if you are a negative minded person!

Just want to celebrate Mrs. Ihuoma Laura Nwodo, my adorable sister, wife and a mother. She is an epitome of beauty, strength, courage, determination. I admire her qualities, most is her ability to suck in challenges and beam you those beautiful smiles whenever you meet her. She does not allow challenges to take the best of her, or affect her relationship with folks. If she does not tell you her needs, you will never know she needs any.  She is also a writer, a singer. You can follow her on her instagram @omashines for some amazing real life quotes. Cheers all.....and have a great evening. 

We make a living by what we get. And we make a life by what we give. Giving is a calling and not everyone has the liberty to give willingly.

Someone once said that, Fathers who lead their homes out of inner strength, produce daughters who like their femininity, because Dad is secure with them and relates to them as women, and as a result drawing out their femaleness.  I agree! This is so true! And I will add by saying that if a father is egocentric, weak and distant, he will produce daughters who are unsure of themselves and insecure of who they are! The same with boys, who grow up without a strong father! They would start to engage in unhealthy activities to prove themselves as men and to gain the approval that a weak dad fails to give.  This is the order of the day in most homes, whereby the duty of raising godly children are left for the moms alone! This should not be! I call it a perversion of the divine order, whereby a man leaves his ordained duty to his wife- practically giving up his office! Then he gets angry when GOD starts blessing the woman and equipping her with all the necessary resource...

A lady once shared her life experience, and her obsession of wanting to have a perfect image, by trying to become like the "perfect" images in the make-believe world.  She eventually broke free from the destructive grip of her obsession. Here's what she said, I am actually paraphrasing ok, not quoting her word for word.  Your obsession to be prefect will: Keep you trapped in loneliness; to have a satisfying relationship, it must be built in honesty and openness.  Force you to see your shortcomings as something to hide, instead of opportunities for growth.   Prevent you from enjoying and appreciating what you are right now, and ensuring to becoming a better person.  Rob you of the chance of making your life count, because by focusing on yourself, you will have nothing left to give to others!   Search your soul, you find out who GOD has made you to be. It might seem dormant because it has not been in use, but it is not silent. Ta...