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Be specific! What do you want to achieve in the next six to twelve months? Break it down into small, manageable pieces. Rome was not built in a day- enjoy the process! 

Here's what someone said:  If you stopped a hundred people and asked them what they were doing to guarantee success in their future, then tracked  them until they were Sixty five years, you will find that: One will be wealthy; Five will be financially secure;  The remaining ninety-four will Live and die as dependents.  Did they plan to fail, No. They just failed to plan!  Unless you have a vision for your future, with great insights of who you really are and what you really desire for yourself, line up your priorities accordingly, set high standards for yourself, and keep your goals before you at all times- you are destined to be one of the ninety-four.  You must set achievable goals and must work with your imagination. You cannot be who you did not imagine yourself to be! Your goals must demand growth, and you must be ready to reach them! That's why everyday creates us new opportunities to actualize our set goals!  Rememb...

Hey ladies, I've got something to share with you- and this is from well experienced people who know deeply about dating, courtship and marriage. Dating most times is the starting point to a short term relationship or a long term relationship which could eventually lead to I DO!  But firstly, you must pay close attention to every detail and must be brutally honest with yourself no matter deep you may have fallen for that guy.  When you know who you really are and your worth, you would never accept anything less! Most times, we ladies see the warning signs but we ignore them.  The truth is, you can never give a gold ring to a pig and expect it to value it. Never! So that is why you must find out his interpersonal behaviour.   Does he listen to you when you are talking?  Does he say to you, "you never told me that"? Do you get the sense that your thoughts and feelings are important to him? Does he treat people around him with kindness? How does he rea...

Be good to yourself. Treat yourself nicely.  

It is hard to be you when you do not know who you are. It is hard to love another when you do not love yourself. Because you cannot give what you do not have.  GOD is love, and HE made us all in HIS own image and likeness. That means you do not need to search elsewhere to find love. You are love; and you are richly endowed with it. As much as life would want to tell you otherwise, or might want to point to you obvious facts why you are not qualified to be called love or you may have made terrible miatakes and you feel like you deserve to be punished the rest of your life, tell yourself you are love, and you have it in surplus to give! Keep saying it and your transformation will be apparent to all.  See my dear friend, your mistakes are your stepping stone to greatness- they were all in the plan for your life. Remember, it is like a baby that is born, all the pain and dirts, became the most beautiful gift life can give. So let your love shine!

No matter the world's opinion about you or what you call "the real fact", only you can change your situation. You must realise who you are. You must tell yourself uncountable times every time, the very things you desire for yourself, no matter what you see in the mirror of life. You must start seeing the best in you and the best in every situation.  There is always a reason why things happen. Nothing just happens! You must see the beauty inside of you first before anyone else can! You must see yourself as a victor first before you can conquer. You must win inside first before you can win on the outside.  Always remember that the world will call you what you call yourself. The moment you accept yourself, you become beautiful. That moment is special! When you conquer the battles of the mind, you are really a victor! Because that's the real battle we fight!