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Oftentimes, we think that relationship is all about other people, but do you know that it starts with you first? Yes, you. Why? Because all relationships involve two people and while your friends, partners and maybe colleagues will come and go, the one person who remains after all is you.  Get into a relationship with yourself first, have a good grasp on yourself emotionally and mentally, because if you don't first strengthen yourself, you will not be able to enjoy the best relationship(s) possible. You will always end up sabotaging yourself.  Now you see? It starts with you! So, if you find yourself repeating the same arguments with people, you might have to check yourself.  Photo Credit: pixabay

Hello there, how have you all been? I have a strong conviction that someone might need this, so here goes. Many people do not know about the power of good feelings, and as such their feelings are basically reactions or responses to what happens to them. They have their feelings on automatic pilot, instead of deliberately taking charge of them. When something good happens, they feel good and when they do not get the result they want, they feel bad.  They don't realise that their feelings are the cause of what is happening to them, because the more they respond negatively, the more they give out negative feelings which eventually results to more negative circumstances. But be intentional. Give your situation a back seat by choosing to react positively. You must get your attitude right! The truth is, the  greatest revolution in our generation is the discovery that we humans, by changing the inner attitudes of our minds, can change the outer aspects of our lives. ...

'Developing presence is a work in progress which requires deliberate attention to your internal and external self as they are strong components that make the whole". Uche Reagan.  Photo credit: pixabay

Are your thoughts worthy of you? I once asked myself this question years back and I realised that my thoughts were far from who GOD has created me to. My thoughts were messed up due to the hard times I had to face as a result of wrong choices, until I made up my mind that "I am not who my past said I am." NOW is the time to change yours if your answer is NO. You can begin right where you are right now. Nothing matters but this moment and what you are focusing your attention on. Do it now!  Photo Credit: pixabay

Hi there! I hope you are having a great weekend. I believe that you are great and that there is something magnificent about you. Regardless of your past, how young or old you think you might be, the moment you change your perspective and start thinking properly, this something that is within you, this POWER within you that's greater than the world, will begin to emerge. It will take over your life. It will feed you, cloth you, guide you, protect you, direct you, sustain your very existence. If you let it!  Now that is what I know for sure. Do have a lovely weekend and learn to unwind sometimes, that helps too! Xoxo Photo credit: pixabay

Someone asked me this question today, and I must say that at first it threw me off balance because I didn't see it coming. And after a deep thought, here was my response. "The same way you fall in love with another person- you adore everything about them! You fall in love with another person by seeing only love, hearing only love, speaking only love, and by feeling love with all your heart."  And that is exactly how you use the ultimate power of love to fall in love with life. When you love life, no matter the challenges you're going through, you will choose to see only the best outcome.  The way my friend felt after my response? Oh well, your guess is as good as mine. Have a lovely time fam. Live, and love life. Your best days are here! Xoxo Photo Credit: pixabay

Hello Friend, I trust you had a resourceful day. Just a word to encourage someone who needs it. Resolve to remain as strong, as determined, and as highly enthused during the darkest night of adversity as you were and will be during the sunniest day of prosperity.  Do not feel disappointed when things seem disappointing. Keep the eye single upon the same brilliant future regardless of the circumstances, conditions, or events.  Do not lose heart when things go wrong. Continue undisturbed in your original resolve to make all things go right... A wise man said “The man who never weakens when things are against him will grow stronger and stronger until all things will delight to be for him. He will finally have all the strength he may desire or need. So dear friend, be always strong and you will always be stronger. That's the reality! Xoxo.  Photo Credit: pixabay

Hello Friend, just a few words for you. Hope your day is going well.  If you knew your potential to feel good, I mean if you know what you will benefit from feeling good,  you would ask no one to be different so that you can feel good.  You would free yourself of all of that cumbersome impossibility of needing to control the world, or control your mate, or control your child(ren). You will make up your mind to feel good in spite of your situation.  You are the only one who creates your reality; don't forget your perspective is your reality, and no one else can think for you, no one else can do it! It is only you, every bit of you! Photo Credit: pixabay

True health and general well-being begins with your thoughts.  When you think about comfort, strength, flexibility,  youthfulness, wealth, health, you attract these qualities into your life and body, but when you keep dwelling on illness, fear, disease and pain , you will keep attracting the exact same.  Situations can be mean I know, but friend, you do not need to give your situation the upper hand to mess you up anyhow it wants. Stand up and push back!  How do you do that? By changing your thoughts and moving them in the direction of health and happiness and all that pertains to life and Godliness. Win!  Photo Credit: Pixabay

If you are facing a problem, or you’ve hit the rock bottom,  and you can’t see any way out, the act of deep gratitude will clear the way. It is as though your gratitude causes the Universe to issue a free pass that enables you jump over the obstacle.  You know sometimes I feel down, but whenever I start being thankful, it's as though the problems disappear, more like literally disappear. That's what gratitude does; it disgraces your problems and make them look like nothing. So with this attitude,  you find the obstacle you were facing diminishes or disappears and your way ahead is made clear, or you find the solution wherewith the obstacle is overcome. 

Happy New Month friends. How has your year been? Hope it's been great. Mine has been great with more of life's experience and inclination. Yet, in all, you can agree with me that nothing just happens and as such, every single experience came with it a great lesson. But something tells me strongly that we have just entered our best days yet and I am not mincing words. You and I will start experiencing supernatural help. Only believe. And what has your expectations been? Hope it's been solely on GOD and not man.  Dear friend, I urge you to erase any form of expectation from man and expect only from GOD- because GOD does not fail! Enjoy the September to Remember. Xoxo