JUST A FEW MARRIAGE TIPS.

The taste is not the same in marriage. It's not bitter, but it sha tastes different from the days of dating and courtship. That's the reality. The more reason you must look before you leap. Don't be carried away by sentiments. 

Marry someone who genuinely loves you and can .. whether the challenges of life with you in peace and not in pieces. Marry someone who is ready to listen (and make adjustments where and when necessary) to you whenever you want to express how you feel. 

If children start coming 9 months later, there's every possibility that things will become a bit heated up; the anxiety of caring for your new born, the fears, all the attention on the baby, etc. And if no conscious effort is made by the two of you to create time for each other, It might lead to a serious crack in your marriage. 

And it is very important, my dear Ladies, that you marry a man who is 101 percent emotionally and mentally sound, because you will need it in the long run. A man shouldn't react to every of your actions. That's a red flag. 

If you mean well for yourself, you must  not be carried away by sentiments. Be sensitive. If you know who you are, you will be more careful with such life decisions. Always have this in mind, that someone is good does not mean that the person is right for you. 

Let me end by saying this: Pray. Never use another person's formula in your marriage, because what works for A may mar B.