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Yes, a lot of us carry the weight of our stories around with us everyday. I agree that to some degree, our stories gives us comfort. You know that sick blanket kind of thing. But hey, that's the devil. It's his plan to indulge you in self-pity, which only limits you. I want you to know that, no matter how terrible your past is, you are not your story. The failed marriages, the failed businesses, loss of friendships and relationships, loss of jobs etc- you are still not your story! The only thing that holding on to the past does is to limit us. Stop talking about your stories, you are only building on them and making them kook bigger and badder each time you tell them, giving it more power to rule you. Stop carrying the weight of your story around. Let it go!

Something very important that I have learned in my journey is saying Yes to any challenge I face. It doesn't mean that I am happy with the situation or that I approve it, rather it means that i accept. It. Truth is, acknowledging that situation or your mistakes or any challenge removes resistance and obliterates stress and gives you greater power to change and recover from that situation. When you say yes to everything that comes up in your life, life becomes easier. You will develop a loving and accepting side.

The taste is not the same in marriage. It's not bitter, but it sha tastes different from the days of dating and courtship. That's the reality. The more reason you must look before you leap. Don't be carried away by sentiments.  Marry someone who genuinely loves you and can .. whether the challenges of life with you in peace and not in pieces. Marry someone who is ready to listen (and make adjustments where and when necessary) to you whenever you want to express how you feel.  If children start coming 9 months later, there's every possibility that things will become a bit heated up; the anxiety of caring for your new born, the fears, all the attention on the baby, etc. And if no conscious effort is made by the two of you to create time for each other, It might lead to a serious crack in your marriage.  And it is very important, my dear Ladies, that you marry a man who is 101 percent emotionally and mentally sound, because you will need it in the long run...