IS HE EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY???? FIND OUT MORE FROM THIS INSIGHTFUL PIECE!.....

The importance of the emotional health of the man you marry can never be over emphasised! Because GOD has made the man to be the head of his family, he must be emotionally healthy, else he will and always make decisions that will continuously put your relationship and marriage in jeopardy! His mental health could also be influenced by his emotional health. You do not want to be with a man who is psychotic or who has a history of violence, trust me! You do not want to marry a man who beats you beyond recognition, at any little arguement! 

Yes, it is true that a lot of us have experienced some emotionally disturbing events in the past,  but you see, a lot of people have allowed their past to define them, which should not, if you ask me! 

To let go of the past is not easy at all, but with GOD, it is as easy as ABC, only if you let HIM! 

Past mistakes, terrible and violent experiences should never define our lives or how we treat people! Some men are violent and abusive because they have fathers who were violent towards their mothers and towards them and maybe also because they grew up in an environment where violent and abusive behaviour was a norm. 

Be careful to study the man you are involved with and make sure that he is emotionally healthy.  And one will ask me, "how do I know if he is emotionally healthy"? I tell you what my friend, we women always know the truth, but even when  the truth glares at us, we turn a blind eye! We are very good at making excuses for our men! But not when your destiny is at stake! Look very closely!!!! 

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