THE ART OF DISGUISED FRIENDSHIP

Many people surround themselves with enemies disguised as friends. We assume people mean well simply because they show us attention, support, or “love.” But sometimes they are only around because of the value we bring to their lives, their business/brand, ministry, or even their ego.

If you pay close attention, you’ll notice that it is often the so-called friends who tear others down. The signs are always there, but we miss them because we believe we are too important to ever be betrayed.

A major red flag is anyone who constantly has issues with the people who genuinely love you. They pretend to care more than your real ones, not because they love you, but because distancing you from your true support system makes you easier to influence. When they isolate you, they silence the voices that could protect and guide you.

Be discerning about who you call “friend” and who you call “family.” In this generation, many have made enemies their closest companions and treated true friends like foes.

Remember, not everyone who smiles is loyal. Some enemies now wear the mask of love and support.