...WHEN YOU PUT UP A FACADE!


If you are pretending to be who you are not in order to attract and marry a rich guy or a beautiful and successful lady, you are digging a deep pit for yourself. That relationship will be full of problems! 

 Pretense is a false claim of who or what you are not! And as sad as it is, most people do not like sincere and straight forward people- which is why the world is the way it is!

 Seriously, most friendships and relationships have been marred because "people" love to be pretended to. They do not like to hear the truth and as such, people they call friends live in great pretense, putting up a facade, yet at the end, they are devastated and traumatised when the truth finally comes out- when their so called friends display their true selves! 

 Lack of truth and integrity kills relationships! The greatest thing to happen to anyone is when you are surrounded with real friend(s) and not wolves in sheep clothings! 

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