SOME WORDS WORTH ELIMINATING FROM OUR USAGE!

But ( replace with and... )

If ( replace with when... )

Should ( replace with could... )

You ( replace with I/we... )

Can't ( replace with can... )

Don't ( use action alternative...e.g. "don't put that there"/"please put that here", 

"don't yell @ me"/"please speak gently to me".

Sounds familiar? Remember that the words we speak reveals how well or sick our mental state is- and as such charts the course of our lives!