THE BEST WAY TO DEAL WITH TOXIC PEOPLE.



It is important to know that toxic people are not your fault. They are not going to suddenly wake up and decide to stop being toxic.


The best way to deal with toxic people is to keep your emotions in check, and make sure you don't take things personally. 


When you're dealing with a toxic person, know that:


Toxic people often want to make you angry, so don't give them the chance to put you in that state. You know better than to allow the unkind treatment of a toxic person make you unkind.


Don't let them get away with undermining you—you deserve better than that. So, find a better way to pass your message across and leave that space as quickly as possible.


Keep your boundaries clear!


Know that most of the time, a toxic person acts out of desperation, frustration which is always their best option, because they feel there's no other choice. Try not to take it personally, and move on. 

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"II hardly ever—by never, I mean never—comment on blogs written by total strangers. I had to this time.
I want to congratulate you on persevering and receiving something that means a great deal to you and your family.
I wish you the best of luck in achieving your goal, whatever it may be.
Respect Helen
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