SATURDAY TABLE TALK WITH NEMERULEZ- IS LOVE ALL THAT MAKES A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE WORK?

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You know, most times, what we call love is not the true love expressed and given to us by GOD through HIS son, JESUS CHRIST, but a selfish emotional feeling.

When we love the GOD KIND of way or we enter relationships and marriages with the intent to love the person the GOD KIND of way, it is already a success. But then, the problem is a lot of people are overlooking the ill treatments they're getting from their partners and are assuming or expecting that they will change when they are married.  That's so wrong! That is playing with fire and expecting it not to burn you; oh it definitely will! You cannot love a pig and expect him or her to be a dove when you're married. 

Learn to discern true love, and some of the ways you will know if you're in the right relationship is if the person is patient, does not lie or talk ill about others or even their past relationships, gives you a sense of security, treats you with love and respect, is not egocentric,  has a right attitude, behaviour, above all loves GOD. If your partners don't have these, I'm sorry, you're headed for a ship wreck. His or her "love" alone cannot guarantee you a peaceful and happy relationship, but the GOD KIND of love will.

Truth is, a lot of relationships and marriages that did not work out were long dead even before they started. Please drop your comments. 

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