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How would you rate your ability to control your emotions, to pause before acting or reacting? How would your friends, children, or work colleagues rate your emotional control?  Has someone deeply offended you recently? How did you respond? Were you magnanimous? How would you respond differently if again given the same circumstances?  One of the highest forms of magnanimity is forgiveness. Is forgiveness a consistent part of who you are as a person?  When life comes at us hard, sometimes a portion of properly placed humor can help us to adapt. Have you learnt to laugh even in the midst of challenging moments?

YOUR PAST IS NEVER A GOOD PLACE TO VISIT. IT IS WISE NOT TO TAKE A PEEP INTO THE PAST, BECAUSE THERE IS NOTHING GOOD TO FIND THERE, ONLY DOUBTS, FEARS, GUILTS, MISTAKES.  NEME...

Happy weekend friends. Just to share with you a little conversation I had with a colleague yesterday. Read below: Enkay: "I have come to realise that when you are happy and successful in your marriage or career or you are succeeding generally, people (friends) are not genuinely happy for you. But when u have a lot to complain about, advisers will be flowing in left, right and centre. I feel it is safe if one keeps some of those things going well for one with one and loved ones and do not make it so public for people to see".  Here's my response: Well... the truth is "a gold fish does not have a hiding place". So your success always announces you, no matter how hard you try to hide it. Then I ask, what do you do? Just be wise and hide yourself and all your successes to GOD.  Then and only then will you be safe!  Do you think my colleague is right? Do you think am right as well? Please share your thoughts.

Do you want to get married because: You are of age? Your mates are getting married? You want to run away from your parents strict discipline? You want to have sex freely without feeling guilty? You need a man to support you financially? You are being pressurised to get married? You cannot face some challenges alone? You are lonely? You are not getting any younger? and alot more wrong reasons I believe these questions are very familiar. But I would like you to pause and reflect. Marriage is an institution of enjoyment not endurance (of pains, sorrow, bitterness to mention but a few). You need to get it right as to why you really want to get married, but definitely not for the above wrong reasons.  GOD is the originator of marriage and the perfect match maker. So it will be wise if you consult HIM. Your marriage must be ordained by GOD before you can be assured that nothing can and will ever go wrong no matter what.  Time to reflect!

One day, when I was about five, I told my grandfather a lie. It was not a very black lie. My grandfather asked our gardner to bring a long ladder and place it against the front of the roof. When the ladder was firmly in place he said to the gardner, "Our boy has taken to leaping from housetops. The ladder is for him to use when he so desires. "I knew at once what this meant, for one of the proverbs in our distinct was: "A lie is a leap from a house-top." "I brooded in silence. It was awkward to have the ladder before the front door. I began to fear that it would be there forever if I did not do something. I found my grandfather reading a book and I went quietly up to him and buried my face in his lap. "Grandpa," I said, "we do not need the ladder any more." He seemed very happy. He called the gardner and said to him: "Take the ladder away at once. Our boy does not leap from house-tops. " I will never forget that inci

The problems you encounter do not define you. What matters is how you deal with these problems. Your ability to face your problems and conquer them makes it easier to handle challenges. Most importantly, you must identify what these problems are, because "you cannot fight what you are not aware of". Problems fear actions. These problems will remain until you take necessary steps (actions) to bring them to an end. Be determined to face your problems head on!   Please share with us how you were able to defeat your problems.

LOVE IS STRONGER THAN SICKNESS. IT IS STRONGER THAN DISEASE. IT IS STRONGER THAN POVERTY. BUILD YOUR DAILY AGENDA AROUND WHAT YOU TRULY AND CONSCIOUSLY LOVE.

I marvel at people who say " I do not have a price tag. I do not expect anything in return. I just want to live my life". And I really wonder where they got this mean idea from. If you do not have a price tag, then anyone can afford you. You are not valued. You can always be used and dumped. You will never be appreciated. That ideology of not expecting anything in return simply means you are not sure of your own self and as such you do not regard yourself. We are living in a world whereby you are treated the way you present yourself. If you are not treated with love, respect, appreciation, then there is every possibility that you might have marked yourself down! It is never too late to get back on. You must love yourself first before you can be loved by anyone else. By so, you will know when you are not getting the right treatment, love, care, affection, appreciation. Life is too beautiful not to be appreciated and live happily knowing that you are worth loving. Do not buy

THE BEST GIFTS DO NOT ALWAYS ARRIVE IN SILK. THEY ARE MOSTLY DISGUISED.   NEME..

In the race for quality, there is no finish line. David T. Kearns Who doesn't like the feel of quality? Whether it comes from a well-made car, a fine woven piece of clothing, a well carved furniture, a stable building, a delectable meal,  an intricate technological device, a precise musical performance, a finely tuned work team, or a form of appearance, quality has an appealing feel.  In all of the desire to either deliver quality or sustain it, it also has its price as demonstrated by some persons in their various fields of fulfilment.  Johnny Carson who for thirty years tickles the delights of enormous television audiences. His smile and laughter were obviously contagious as nightly he relieved listeners of their days stresses. But while he made he made it appear so effortless, in "Here's Johnny," we learnt just how hard Johnny worked to maintain his high standards of quality.  The quality of what we produce or the services we render as an emplo

Many marriages struggle when one or both spouses start to show destructive behaviour. This happened with Karen and me. We got married at 19 years old. Neither of us had a clue about marriage. We blamed each other for what was wrong with our marriage. But blaming doesn't help in a destructive marriage. The only way to fix it is by recognizing the behavior and correcting it.  There are four basic reasons people become destructive. The first is ignorance. Some people just don't know any better. This was the case with us. We didn't know how to succeed in relationships. When you grow up in a broken home, you don't have a successful marriage to learn from. Your only models are failed marriages and unhealthy relationships. We've never met any couple who got married in hopes of getting divorced. That's crazy. But so few people have the resources to succeed. That's why our ministry works so hard to teach people about marriage. We want to provide t

YOU ARE NOT ASSIGNED TO EVERYBODY. YOU ARE NOT ASSIGNED EVERYWHERE. YOU CANNOT SOLVE EVERY KIND OF PROBLEM. ...MIKE MURDOCK

Water is the main component of the body composed of between 55 and 78 percent water. We enjoy great health benefits when we consume adequate and regular quantity of water. As an added advantage to its tasteless, odourless, and colourless state, it has zero level carbohydrates, calories, fat or sugar which makes it the most health liquid to be consumed.  Further more, the institute of Medicine has determined the adequate intake of total beverage per day to be about three litres or 13 cups for men and 2.2 litres or nine cups for women. This recommended quantities obviously highlight the very need to ensure the regular intake of water to keep the body well hydrated for proper functioning of every cell in the body. I will share with you some of the research based and realistic health benefits of drinking water. One of the obvious benefits we have enjoyed is that it aids in proper digestion of food and prevents constipation because it improves the functioning of the gastroin

CHAMPIONS SPEND THEIR TIME BUILDING THEIR DREAMS. EVEN WHEN CRITICS ATTACK THEM. NEME.

DO NOT EXPECT TO HAVE A HARVEST WHEN YOU HAVE NOT PLANTED ANY SEED.         NEME...

I cannot agree less... This is a must read. Maya Gunawan's Photos

YOU CAN GET IT IF YOU REALLY WANT. BUT YOU MUST TRY. TRY AND TRY. YOU'LL SUCCEED AT LAST.

I can vividly remember one of the songs we sang in our primary school days "good better best, I shall never rest, until my good is better, and my better best." I know a lot of you can resonate with that song, and I can imagine you smiling as you take a quick stroll down memory lane, remembering the way you as u sang the song along with friends and matched down to class after words of admonition from a significant order in school.  I can tell you that as at then, those words and songs were more of daily ritual because you have to be part of the assembly and morning devotion as the case may be. They barely made sense to me as an enthusiastic, playful child obviously because my mental astuteness could neither understand the degree to which it was relevant at that tender moment in my life nor apply it to my everyday life.  Significantly, as I most often than not, in retrospect, I bask in the thoughts of the words that I heard as a little child and it's amazing to

ANYTIME YOU GET DISTRACTED, THERE IS A HIGH POSSIBILITY OF LOSING SOMETHING; KEEP YOUR FACE LIKE THAT OF A FLINT! REAGAN CHAMPION..

As we live life, it's important to put into cognizance the way we treat and respond to people whether they are engaged in the right activities, or their actions are off tangent with the right principles.  Here's a modest proposal: Make up your mind that for the rest of this year, you wouldn't judge your friends and people around you no matter what you experience with them or what you see them express, rather, offer to help the right kind of help that will salvage the circumstance.  Buying into judgement blurs your heart from seeing the good in people who are designed to contribute meaningfully to your life assignment. Take note of your thoughts and the things you say. Be completely aware of the times when you are being overly critical, and ask yourself why you feel that way. Are your thoughts rooted in reality, or are they coming from a place of fear and insecurity? Once you notice yourself being judgemental, you can take actions to reverse this self-destructive b

1. Count your blessings daily, and give thanks. 2. Get proper rest and exercise, and start eating healthier. 3. Do not let petty office or school politics have power over your personal or professional success. Monitor what you hear, what you read, and what you say. These three components determine the outcome of your life. 4. Set aside personal time with family and close friends. 5. Help someone in need. It helps bring out your true spirit. 6. Feed your spirit daily; read and listen to inspiring books and teachings. 7. Discover the motives that motivates you, and remember, motivation is not permanent. 8. Reflect on your victories-things you've forgotten that were special. Rekindle the fire that helps you turn your right attitude into actions.  9. Create an upbeat, positive greeting that builds enthusiasm for you and everyone around you. 10. Develop a clear vision, lock into your purpose and passion, and set goals with deadlines.

We all know the importance of exercise. Read below some interesting reasons exercise is beneficial to our healthy living. Tridosha Wellness's photo

WHEN YOU ARE SCARED OF SOMETHING DIFFERENT,  JUST TRY IT. TRY IT.

REVENGE DOES NOT SOLVE PROBLEMS, RATHER IT DESTROYS...PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, SPIRITUALLY AND EMOTIONALLY! 

We create our own breaks as we take responsibility for our life-and that includes working hard and speaking up for ourselves. It gave Betty Ford no advantage to blame others for her problems or make excuses. Do you ever catch yourself blaming your problems or limitations on others, genetics or your environment? Maya Angelou did not allow adverse circumstances drive her life and attitudes. Do you let circumstances drive what you do in life, or do you create your own circumstances. Chuck Norris showed initiative and created his own breaks by standing up for himself and promising to do better. What level of initiative do you demonstrate when times are tough? Pause and Think!!!