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Do not do things because others are doing it. Learn what your purpose is and go for it. Trying to be someone you are not,  is the worst thing you can do to yourself. 

What If your skill is hidden somewhere in that harsh and difficult situation you are in right now?  What If the heartbreak was a necessary part of the path to finding your purpose?  What If the disappointment was actually an opportunity posing at your face?  Like a baby that's born,  all the pain and dirt, became the most beautiful thing. So, most times, wildernesses a'int only about shame, suffering,  but also a place where you discover who you truly are before your assignment becomes clear - your very essence of being! 

WHEN YOU KEEP GOING BACK TO SOMEONE WHO HAS TREATED YOU BADLY, OR IS TREATING YOU BADLY, YOU ARE EMPOWERING THE PERSON TO GAIN TOTAL CONTROL OVER YOU.

As parents, our goal is not only to get our children to obey orders, but to also build their characters. Help them develop healthy conscience. Help them to have the sense of right doing.  Start to build and develop your child's character from the cradle. When you overlook certain behaviours that your infant exhibits without correcting him/her, you are telling her "yeah go ahead, it's very okay and normal to behave that way because you're still a baby". And you'll see your child grow in that manner, because your little child does not know what is right or wrong.  However, It is our duty as parents to build our children's character, teach them good decorum.  So, whatever negative attitude you see your infact exhibit,  correct him/her before it becomes who he/she is. The Bible says " you discipline the one you love"(Hebrew 12:6, Revelation 3:19) .  By building your children's character, which involves a whole lot, for example reb

As much as people would want to believe that there are too many bad people in the world,  there are still very good people living the good life.  I strongly believe that only good will continue to come my way. And whatever the enemy meant for evil, will always turn around for my good.  How about you?

Butterflies, sub-titled Nwoke Oma (Igbo for "Good Man"), is a refreshingly playful and sensual song depicting the, sometimes, indescribable feelings that romance brings. In this song, J'odie, Kuchi-kuchi Crooner, boosts the tempo of her "conventional love song", yet retaining the pan-African sound. Enjoy..... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nloH34aT1uo&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Most times,  people judge you by your looks, but they wouldn't know what you might have gone through to be where you are.  Few years ago, as a fresh graduate, was still looking for a job, I remember trekking a very long distance from a friend's house back to my house because I didn't have money for transportation and the friend didn't bother to offer me a ride even though she had a car and knew I was not buoyant enough. Sounds crazy, but it was a very long journey though,  but I trekked it.  Today,  things are beautifully different because I never stopped believing. I refused to take the short cut, though that seemed like the only option I had. I stayed strong in my faith and never gave up.  There's someone out there who is about to throw in the towel.  But do not! Just hang in there. Do not give up.  It is not over yet as long as you are alive. Faith is all you need to see the light in the midst of that dark situation. See yourself as GOD sees you - ho