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Take a look at Joshua, he went to the Promised Land (filled with milk and honey), saw and tasted the blessings, but had to battle with the thought of convincing people (the lsraelites) who had no idea or at most no interest in what he's talking about.  Is that your situation right now? Have you been asking, "how long do i have to keep this promise in my heart and not have a soul to share with? Wait! Your appointment is still on GOD'S calendar. I assure you that the GOD who started HIS great work in you would bring it to a flourishing finish! 

When you manipulate words to get your own way, you go wrong!

When a man loves his wife, cares for her, gives her security and assurance, she will remain his loyal and trusted friend. 

Conversation is not a need that can be met exclusively in marriage. Our need for conversation can be met by almost anyone.  Both the man and the woman, it is important to know if conversation is your most important emotional need, because whoever meets it best will deposit so many love units and falling in love with the person is most times impossible to avoid! So, if it is your need, ensure that the person you are dating and planning to get married to meets it the best and most often.  Couples who have great conversation (hey..I don't mean just talking too much without making sense, because body language is also part of conversation, you feel me***) enjoy the company and warmth of one another! No wonder GOD was always coming down in the cool evening to converse with Adam and Eve! 

Whether you are being lifted from the mud, turned on the wheel, or "made over again," at all times and in every situation, you are always in HIS hands! That's right!  When you are broken and wounded, when others give up on you, when you think you can't take it another day, at your lowest point, GOD still has HIS hands on you....and will always!

Has life buried your dream? Have others told you its too late? Don't believe it! Why? Because, Robert Lopatin became a doctor in his mid-fifties, Grandma Moses took up painting when she was seventy-five and had a celebrated twenty-six year career as an artist. No ah started building the ark at five - hundred. Listen, we are talking about a GOD-given dream that leads to GOD-honouring results! Pursue it no matter how far fetched it seems! Dreams are the joy of your present and hope of your future, like your children.  Protect them! Feed them! Encourage them to grow. For as long as you have a dream, you will never grow old! I mean that literally!  In spite of betrayal by his family and all that Joseph went through, it was his dream that carried him all the way to his destiny as rule of Egypt. 

Wherever you are today, look at your beliefs - they got you there!

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We all have a past. Unfortunately, this past has held a lot of people prisoners, they make excuses like "you know what I've been through has really held me from moving forward". Does this sound like someone out there?  You really need to get over your past! One thing is certain, until we break the chain that ties us to our past, we can never move forward!  Bitterness is like a chain around the neck of your potential; choking the life of your freedom, joy, open doors. Maybe you have been hurt and you are saying "I will never forgive them until they admit to what they have done to me". Does this sound like someone out there? What if they never admit they hurt you? You sure will get more hurt. I know how this feels because I have been there.  You need not let your happiness depend on people's ability to do right - especially if they are not in the habit of doing right. So, stop giving them too much power to keep you down. Get over your past. Le

It is a terrible thing for one not to know what one wants. It means that you will continue to accept anything that comes your way- anything goes.  But how do you even know what you want when you do not know who you are? Until you become aware of your worth, know that you are as valuable to GOD as JESUS is, you might as well keep marking time for the devil and letting him use you as he wishes.  A lot of folks are victims of this terrible situation of which yours truly was also a victim, until I discovered that I am special; special enough for my LORD JESUS to give HIS life for me. I became aware of my worth and how fearfully and wonderfully made I am. I realised that I was not an accident, that GOD created me for a purpose. It is amazing to know how to overome challenges  without wavering.  So, do not let the devil serve you dishes you do not want. Know who you are and what you want and by so, you will be able to stand unshakeable at situations.

When the cloud is full of rain, it empties it upon the earth. 

To every woman our there who is struggling and keeping the faith, believing that one day their time will come, I urge you to draw strength from this woman's story. She's been around for a while in the movie industry, but she wasn't really a house hold name, yet she kept at it. Until, Empire. The series the whole world is talking about now without mentioning "cookie"- that's the name character she played. She's been sought out since then.   I need you to know that as long as you are doing the right thing, don't give up,  prayerfully and faithfully keep at it, and one day, just like that, GOD will announce you. Every successful man and woman have a story behind their success!  BE INSPIRED AND DONT GIVE UP!  Photo credit: Instagram @tarajiphenson

There's something beautiful about starting small. You know,  like nurturing a child, from the conception to the weeks of formation until the day of bringing forth the child and then watching the child grow every day. It's a mystery. Likewise, every success achieved was conceived and birthed and cared for which involved commitment, patience, courage, wisdom, love and every virtue that represents the combination of will and drive.  Then I ask, why are people too lazy to start small? Men want to hit it big without going through the process of nurturing and bringing forth, same with women.  They just want to live the comfortable life without being part of the man's success story. The attitude some people have towards "starting small" possibly scares them. Starting small has nothing to do with poverty or mediocrity, it only communicates a firm attitude that connects with passion and the patience to sieve through every tiny detail...friend my thought is

Must someone fail before he/she learns? I ask this question because a lot of successful people I know, not the ones I read about either said something like "I learnt my lessons the hard way" or "before I got to where I am today, I had failed uncountable times". Please kindly give me your sincere answer. Thank you Neme for the opportunity to ask my questions. 

Keep your past in the past. Even so, they had been great lessons to better your present. That goes to tell you that, every disappointment is a blessing in disguise.

Some men marry simply because they need someone to bear them children. They have no special feelings for the woman they marry, except to produce children. While some women marry because of the financial security and material satisfaction. And if the aboves are not met, such marriages would inevitably crash.  A friend is someone you can share your thoughts, desires, secrets and even fears with and will at all times be willing to protect your interest. A friend is someone you can be yourself with without pretense. A friend does not compromise you. A friend allows you to feel free to express yourself, encourages you, cares about you, makes up easily with you whenever you have any argument.  I will advise that if a man claims to love you and he does not posses the qualities of a true friend, run from such a man,  he is lying to you.  You can never hide the Truth because no matter how gentle a scorpion is, it will surely sting.  Being just gentle isn't the only fact

If you give up being who you are in other to become like someone else, you will end up being someone GOD does not need one more of. So stop trying to be someone else!

What are your shadow-beliefs? The negative voice that tells you that, you are not worthy, you are not able, you will never make it, you are a failure, success is not meant for someone like you and so many other lies.  Today, I urge you to bring them all out into the light and expose them to GODS word. Do not let them control you or decide your future or keep you down!  Refuse to accept any thought that is contrary to what GOD says about you. You cannot speak death over your life, dreams and expect to see them come to life.  Someone might say, "I am not loved or cared for", But it does not matter how others think or feel about you. What you should find out is what GOD has said about HIS feelings and thoughts for you.  HE says in Isaiah 43:4 that you are precious to HIM and that you are HIS honoured and beloved one. Imagine that! So who has the final say?  Man can never be greater than GOD. It is wise that you choose to believe what GOD has said concerning you