QUESTION FOR THE DAY
Why is it that when a man and a woman connect too soon, the man generally ends up pulling away, while the woman feels more needy? Please let's hear your thoughts.
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WHEN YOU FOCUS ON THE WRONG THINGS....
How long have we focused on our outer appearances that we no longer recognise our inner beauty, inner strength, inner glory? Your real value is not your makeup, neither can it be bought. Your real strength is more than a facade- outward apparels, which is very deceptive. The real thing that causes a man to need you that he cannot leave you is not what is on you, but what is in you! You know, the truth is, when you focus on the wrong areas, you don't get the right results.
REFLECTION
Have you ever had someone whom you casted the weight of your confidence on, only to have your trust defrauded in a moment of self-gratification and indulgence? Someone who has a selfish need can jeopardise all that you have!
FACE IT HEAD ON!
Some people see you and come up with this funny idea in their heads that they can control or shut you up. Like they see you and feel you are helpless! Well, that's generally how life is. It beats you hands down- if you allow it! Do not always run in the face of adversity. Face it head on! Do not go back into your shell when someone barks at you. Some situations require you to stand on your feet and challenge them, while some require you to absolutely ignore it. When the world comes too hard on you, come too hard on it as well! Remember whose child you are!
WHEN A MAN TAKES CHARGE
A woman loves it when her man takes charge to follow through and do something without putting it back in her lap. This is very important to her because most women already have the tendency to be overly responsible. The more complex and stressful their lives become, the more overwhelmed and exhausted they become. A woman begins to feel responsible for doing everything for everyone. Her way of getting relief is to share these feelings with someone she loves. If she can share, something happens inside her and she doesn't feel so responsible. It is ad if she sees all possible problems and, unless she tells someone, she feels it is all up to her. More of this tomorrow. John Gray.