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Have you ever wondered why the same thing that you were happy and excited about, that seemed like an answered prayer, turned out to be "uninteresting" or "bad"? For example, the initial butterflies you both felt at the beginning of your relationship, and why all the sweet, rosy, lovey dovey suddenly became a tug of war?  I made a research, and  I got the following answers; It is because you stopped paying close attention to details to whatever you were committed to; be it your relationship, a new project etc. It is because you allowed your focus to slip from the wonderful plans you had when you made up your mind to commit to the task. It is because you forgot the very essence why you decided to commit to the task.  It is because you stopped believing in your good course.  It is because you stopped loving and trusting.  And to remedy the situation or not even be in such a situation at all, here is what I learnt you should do: Always

Stanbic IBTC presented a lasting gift, Educational trust fund to Olajumoke's children. Presentation was held yesterday at the Stanbic IBTC headquarters, Walter Carrington, Victoria Island, Lagos, Nigeria. The people that were present at the presentation were Ame Okwudi, Event and CSI Manager, TY Bello, Popular Nigerian Photographer/Musician,  Binta Max-Gbinijie, Chief Executive, Stanbic IBTC Trustees, Olajumoke/ her husband, Sunday Orisaguna and Angela Omodare, legal adviser.  Congratulations Olajumoke. May GOD continue to shine HIS light on you and your family. See pictures below:

When someone says something like, " manage  your expectations", what the person means is that you should lower your expectations. Has someone told you that before? Yes, I heard that a lot years ago when I was still single. I heard things like, "girl your expectations are too high, you need to lower them because the world does not revolve around you." Someone actually said that to me. Lol. But you know what? I refused to allow her to talk me down or change me or influence me to lower my expectations or affect me negatively. But did I get what I was expecting eventually? You bet I did; even when odds were against me! So you see, the best way to manage your expectations is to raise them; as long as you have the right motives.  Learn to believe in what you want and hold on to it, even in the face of opposition- false evidence appearing real!  No matter what others may say, learn to expect better. Learn to expect love.Learn to expect to live and enjoy the good

On receiving the "Album of the year" award, Taylor Swift made an acceptance speech that amazed the world. Read the excerpt: "I want to say to all the young women out there- there are going to be people along the way who are going to try to undercut your success or take credit for your accomplishments or fame".  Read more,  "If you just focus on the work, and you don't let people sidetrack you, someday, when you get where you're going, you'll look around and you'll know that it was you and the people who love you that put you there, and that will be the greatest feeling in the world." Contrary to what the world was expecting, following her arguments with Kanye West last week where he claims in his new song, Famous, "I made that bitch famous"; they thought that would be the golden opportunity for her to throw shades at Kanye West and tell the world "her own side of the story" or whatever, but instead,

Can we talk, ladies? The same tall, slim, six packs guy you are killing yourself over for, today, may eventually not be your "spec" many years after.  What do you really call "my spec"? The physical looks? Truth be told, looks have made so many people make the worst mistakes of their lives. From experience, I will tell you that looks are very deceptive; things are not always as they seem. That is why you should pray about choosing the right person. Go for quality, not quantity! Those six packs will disappear. Trust me. I guess he is working out now, going to the gym every second to keep the charming physique; that is why you are tripping and playing second fiddle? Receiving all the insults? Watching him play around with other women, while you play the "good girl" who turns a blind eye to all the nonchalant and uncaring attitudes, misbehaviours, so that he can marry you because all your mates are getting married?  Ladies come on??? You need to