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Oftentimes, we think that relationship is all about other people, but do you know that it starts with you first? Yes, you. Why? Because all relationships involve two people and while your friends, partners and maybe colleagues will come and go, the one person who remains after all is you.  Get into a relationship with yourself first, have a good grasp on yourself emotionally and mentally, because if you don't first strengthen yourself, you will not be able to enjoy the best relationship(s) possible. You will always end up sabotaging yourself.  Now you see? It starts with you! So, if you find yourself repeating the same arguments with people, you might have to check yourself.  Photo Credit: pixabay

Hello there, how have you all been? I have a strong conviction that someone might need this, so here goes. Many people do not know about the power of good feelings, and as such their feelings are basically reactions or responses to what happens to them. They have their feelings on automatic pilot, instead of deliberately taking charge of them. When something good happens, they feel good and when they do not get the result they want, they feel bad.  They don't realise that their feelings are the cause of what is happening to them, because the more they respond negatively, the more they give out negative feelings which eventually results to more negative circumstances. But be intentional. Give your situation a back seat by choosing to react positively. You must get your attitude right! The truth is, the  greatest revolution in our generation is the discovery that we humans, by changing the inner attitudes of our minds, can change the outer aspects of our lives. I hop

'Developing presence is a work in progress which requires deliberate attention to your internal and external self as they are strong components that make the whole". Uche Reagan.  Photo credit: pixabay

Are your thoughts worthy of you? I once asked myself this question years back and I realised that my thoughts were far from who GOD has created me to. My thoughts were messed up due to the hard times I had to face as a result of wrong choices, until I made up my mind that "I am not who my past said I am." NOW is the time to change yours if your answer is NO. You can begin right where you are right now. Nothing matters but this moment and what you are focusing your attention on. Do it now!  Photo Credit: pixabay