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When there are stones on the path of water, what does it do? It rises above the stones and flows. Similarly, obstacles are there in life. Rise above obstacles and move through them. Have patience and flow over them.

When you're always talking about difficulties, be it lack of money, illness, failed relationships or business, you are not talking about what you love! When you talk about a bad event in the news, or a person or situation that annoyed or frustrated you, you are not talking about what you love! Talking about the bad day you had, being late for an appointment, getting caught in traffic, or missing the bus are all talking about what you don’t love.  There are many little things that happen each day; if you get caught up in talking about what you don’t love, every one of those little things brings more struggle and difficulty to your life.  You have to talk about the good news of the day. Talk about the success in your marriage and relationships. Talk about the appointment or transactions that went well. Talk about how you love being on time. Talk about how good it is to be full of health. Talk about the profits you want your business to achieve. Talk about the situat

Most people look at their situation and they say, “This is who I am.” That is not who you are! That was who you were! Let's say for instance, you don’t have enough money in your bank account right now, or you don’t have the relationship that you want, or you're battling with health issues. That is not who you are; but the residual outcome of your past thoughts and actions.  When you look at your current situation and define yourself by that, then you doom yourself to have nothing more than the same in the future.

If you are feeling good, I mean that good feeling that is not triggered by anything physical, then you are creating a future that’s on track with your desires. If you are feeling bad, you are creating a future that’s off track with your desires. As you go about your day, remember that forces, both good and bad are waiting to act on your instruction, based on your feelings.  Our feelings are very powerful force.  Everything we think and feel is creating our future. If you are worried or in fear, then you are bringing more of that into your life throughout the day. Practice feeling good and you will receive good! It's amazing how this feeling good thing works. Try it!

Why does success come in between friends? If you have not found that inner joy and made peace with yourself come what may, no matter how much you have, you will always misunderstand people whenever their opinions differ from yours. You will always be a slave to your negative imaginations of the dark mind. You will always be suspicious.  Listen friend, you need to go for the inner joy, the inner peace, the inner vision first. Make peace with yourself. Become that person whose heart has been overtaken by Joy, I mean joy, even in the midst of challenges, and then all of the outer things will become just "a tool". 

When you focus on lack and scarcity and what you don’t have, you fuss about it with your family, you discuss it with your friends, you tell your children that you don’t have enough - “We don’t have enough for that, we can’t afford that” - then you’ll never be able to afford it, because you begin to attract more of what you don’t have. If you want abundance, if you want prosperity, then focus on abundance. Focus on prosperity!

May this month bring us all more love and more blessings. Have a fruitful February! Remember to speak the right words- there is power in your mouth, and everything you say, produces results! So speak right!

What does that voice at the back of your mind keep telling you? What makes you uncomfortable or ashamed of yourself? This could be anything from mistakes to regrets, disappointment, friends at school, or a past traumatic or negative experience. Whatever is making you feel unworthy, ashamed, or inferior, identify it, give it a title, and write it down. Then, tear or burn these written pieces to start feeling positive on those points. This exercise is not meant to bring you down. It is meant to make you aware of the problems you are dealing with, and empower you to move past them. It gives you this feeling of "letting go". I tried it and it worked(s).

Decide what you want. Believe you can have it. Believe you deserve it and believe it’s possible for you. And then close your eyes and every day for several minutes, and visualize having what you already want, feeling the feelings of already having it. Come out of that and focus on what you’re grateful for already, and really enjoy it. Then go into your day and release it to GOD and trust that HE is able to bring it to manifestation!

Get your daily calcium from milk or yoghurt or from other sources of calcium. Calcium keeps your bones strong. Remember that your bone density declines after the age of 30. You need at least 200 milligram daily, which you should also combine with magnesium.

You may think that people who are self-confident are never fearful. This simply is not true. Fear means you are at your growing edge. Perhaps your fear is speaking in front of a group, introducing yourself to someone you don't know, or asking your boss for a raise. When you are able to confront what you fear, you will gain self-confidence and you will feel the boost immediately! Imagine a baby as she learns to walk. So much possibility awaits her. But she is fearful that she will fall as she takes those first steps. When she conquers her fear, and begins walking, a huge smile covers her face! This is you, pushing past your fears too.

Connect with those close to you, whether they are family or friends, to keep your perspective uplifted. MOST FAR, stay away from people or things that make you feel bad. The truth is, someone you call a friend may actually make you feel bad, if they constantly make negative remarks, or criticize you. Even well-intended family members who weigh in with their opinions about what you “should” be doing can be destructive to your self-confidence. You need to cultivate your own positive attitude, set your goals, and work towards achieving them. As much as possible, limit your contact with the naysayers while you build your self-confidence. Who are the people in your life that really make you feel great? Make a goal to spend more time with people who are supportive and uplifting. Happy weekend...and stay positive!

No matter who you are, no matter where you are, no matter your circumstances or desires, if you make a gratitude list every day of the things you are grateful for or if you are truly thankful for every passing day and events, you will see your life take off!  GRATITUDE is your MAGIC WAND! Whatever you point gratitude at increases, gets better, expands, and escalates, but you have to pick up that magic wand, and use it! Got it?  Have a fabulous week friends! 

Showering or bathing in water that's too hot will dry out your skin and cause it to age prematurely. Warm water is much better.  Apply moisturiser while your skin is still damp- it will absorb faster which makes it even more effective.  Adding a little moisturising oil to your bath will help keep your skin moisturised too. Hope you enjoy this tip.... and have you a fabulous weekend! 

The healing of our wounds does not depend on those external actions we take such as working harder, eating healthier, or studying longer hours and more. Healing is not wounds of the body, but of the soul. That means that the only way to healing is to be healed from the inside! Deep in your soul, you may be feeling a great emptiness and uncertainty. You may be feeling compelled to measure up to the standards of other people, while at the same time, not being able to measure up to your own sense of wholeness. You try to be strong, yet it seems you could never be strong enough. You even try to be good, but you could never be holy enough.  You are always followed by your sense of shame, and so you hide yourself with masks of perfection and of beauty.   Beyond that mask however, you feel inadequate, and tired of trying over and over again. JUST STOP your frantic efforts to keep up with others. Healing begins when you are able to face your worst pictures of yourself and stil

I watched a local football match in a school playing ground. As I sat down, I asked one of the boys what the score was. With a proud smile, he replied; 'They are leading us 3-0' !!! REALLY !!! I have to say you don't look discouraged. 'Discouraged?' the boy asked with a puzzled look. Why should I be discouraged when the referee has not blown the final whistle ? Truly, I didn't have an answer to this question! As I got back home that night, his question became a course in my stay in life indeed. Life is like a game. Why should you be discouraged when your referee... The Almighty has not blown the final whistle on your life? The truth is that as long as there is life, nothing is impossible & it is never too late for you. Half time is not full time & HIS calendar is not man's. Dont blow the whistle on yourself. Have an awesome life and with less stress.

Hello friends, hope you all are doing great! Here's, a word from one of my favourites, Susan L. Taylor. Hope this blesses someone.  "The unhappiness we experience is not so much a result of the difficulties encountered along our journey as it is of our misperception of how life instructs us. We may see a failed relationship as an indictment of our self-worth when it is really a lesson in using better judgment, in valuing ourselves more, in expressing greater appreciation for our partner--lessons to prepare us for a more loving and fulfilling union. If we are passed over for a much-anticipated promotion, it may be just the push we need to get more training or to venture out on our own as an entrepreneur. As we rise to meet the challenges that are a natural part of living, we awaken to our many undiscovered gifts, to our inner power and our purpose."