DO YOU AGREE WITH HER MOM?




I got a call from a younger friend today, she is 13 years old. She told me how she likes reading my posts and how she was touched by the article, "a friend indeed" I posted this morning. We got talking and she told me how difficult it has been for her to keep a lasting friendship with her female friends and how she wishes she could have at least one friend she can call "a friend indeed". 


While I probed further, she started crying and told me that her friends do not like her. She said she does not hold back anything from her friends  and that she treats them very nicely and makes them feel at home whenever they are around her, but whenever they have little argument, they say a lot of hurtful things to her. She got so emotional, but I was able to calm her down and told her that everything will be alright. 


However, she said her mom is aware of the whole situation and she gave her possible reasons why her friendship with these friends do not last.  Hear what her mom said:


You have a great personality and as such they cannot meet up with your standard.


They do not deserve to be your friend.


You should not feel guilty for being nice to your friends.


You are more friends to them  than they to you.


You are more blessed.


You have a stronger family background.


You are completely different from their group of friends and as such, they cannot cope with your unique lifestyle and nature. 


Do you agree with her? Please share your thoughts. They will be most appreciated. 




Comments

Unknown said…
There is an handfull of fact in what her mum says, But the Trueth of the matter is that My little Girl is yet to trust the real friend.....JESUS....She is depending on Human Approvals...Never understands the Vanity of human Nature.....

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